"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Need Advice......Helpppp

godjwood

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I dont' get what this girl's deal is. Last Sat. we went to an Xmas party it went well i kinda got drunk (she didn't) and talked too much but w/e the night ended up well we kissed and all that, but it's like she's giving me the cold shoulder and not making an effort to hangout.

I asked her to hangout Today (Tues.) and go see Kong she said 'I can't' no reason behind it just 'I can't' then i was like eh w/e just a fluke, so i asked her to go see a movie Fri. (the special olympic one woo hoo) and she said 'I think we're going to see family at my grandma's Fri.' It's like she's not making an effort and not even saying hey well if we can't Fri. then let's try for Saturday or next week.

And I leave to go to Europe next week 27th, and she knows that, and i come back on the 15th but it's like wtf what's her deal. She said she likes me, we kiss, so wtf is up????

Help Guys what's this chicks deal???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bourne

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First of all this is where you post TIPS, not ask for them.

Second. She might of felt like a slut kissing you on the first night she met you. She got to see you drunk, which might of been a turn off and she is plain NOT INTERESTED. STOP OVERANALYZING.
 

James Bondage

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OK so your going to Europe real soon. The thing to do then is NOT contact her when you come back (because she will expect this). If you don't it will make her wonder about you then hopefully she will come to you with the obligatory 'how was your trip to Europe?' convo. If she still displays low interest or doesn't bother to contact you, then... NEXT!!!
 
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