I need advice fellow DJ's...AFC story

[oscarxp25]

All right, here we go...


A year ago I started a job and met this girl named Michelle. Michelle was the first girl there I met and she was great. Overtime I developed feelings for her and had a secert crush on her. I kept my mouth shut because in the past and from the advice on this site, it taught me to keep my mouth silent. There is an older woman I know there who treats me like a son, and asked me one day who I would date in the resturant. I said Michelle and there was this woman named Claire who was sitting there, who comes in drunk that over heard me say that. My worst fears came to be when Claire came in drunk and told Michelle. I felt really embarrassed and ashamed of myself at the sametime

Michelle did not give any IO's so I moved on and became her friend. She was hookin up with this guy who she needed advice from. I gave it to her and that has been our relationship since then. I have become more comfortable with her and we bust on each other.

Last week, my mananger and Michelle were talking. She said she needed me for advice and he said why do you need him? he likes you. This came as a complete shock to her! She never knew my feelings for her till them which confused me and made me feel like ****.

She is my friend and I do not want her to think I swayed her away from that guy so I can make my move because I thought I had no chance.

What should I do? Should I talk to her saying my real intentions or ignore the situation?

THanks

Kevin

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

All right, here we go...


A year ago I started a job and met this girl named Michelle. Michelle was the first girl there I met and she was great. Overtime I developed feelings for her and had a secert crush on her. I kept my mouth shut because in the past and from the advice on this site, it taught me to keep my mouth silent. There is an older woman I know there who treats me like a son, and asked me one day who I would date in the resturant. I said Michelle and there was this woman named Claire who was sitting there, who comes in drunk that over heard me say that. My worst fears came to be when Claire came in drunk and told Michelle. I felt really embarrassed and ashamed of myself at the sametime

Michelle did not give any IO's so I moved on and became her friend. She was hookin up with this guy who she needed advice from. I gave it to her and that has been our relationship since then. I have become more comfortable with her and we bust on each other.

Last week, my mananger and Michelle were talking. She said she needed me for advice and he said why do you need him? he likes you. This came as a complete shock to her! She never knew my feelings for her till them which confused me and made me feel like ****.

She is my friend and I do not want her to think I swayed her away from that guy so I can make my move because I thought I had no chance.

What should I do? Should I talk to her saying my real intentions or ignore the situation?

THanks

Kevin

Meet girls outside work and avoid drama. They're your co-workers, not best buddies. You don't need them. Maintain a professional relationship and leave it strictly at that. It is usually best to leave your personal life OUTSIDE of work, or at least do not discuss it with people you work with/around on a daily basis.

 

[DJDamage]

There is an older woman I know there who treats me like a son, and asked me one day who I would date in the resturant. I said Michelle and there was this woman named Claire who was sitting there, who comes in drunk that over heard me say that. My worst fears came to be when Claire came in drunk and told Michelle. I felt really embarrassed and ashamed of myself at the sametime

You should never have answered a loaded question like that in a workplace no matter who you trust. Women love to gossip and especially on things like this nature. The best answer to say is " No one, since I am already dating"

Michelle did not give any IO's so I moved on and became her friend. She was hookin up with this guy who she needed advice from. I gave it to her and that has been our relationship since then. I have become more comfortable with her and we bust on each other.

Just because you didn't get IOI from this chick doesn't mean you should settle for the reserved role in which you became her little girlfriend. There is no worse punishment in my opinion to pursue a girl, have her reject you and then become her "advisor" for the other guys she is fvcking.

Last week, my mananger and Michelle were talking. She said she needed me for advice and he said why do you need him? he likes you. This came as a complete shock to her! She never knew my feelings for her till them which confused me and made me feel like ****.

ohh noo its the end of the world for her and you! who would have thought that the guy who gave her constant attention actually liked her??!! I mean aren't friendship suppose to be "platonic" now she has a big dilemma on her hands and that is how to continue get attention from you without you wanting more?!!

She is my friend and I do not want her to think I swayed her away from that guy so I can make my move because I thought I had no chance.

Listen to yourself you sound like you don't have a pair down there. You are so afraid of your own sexuality, desire and what she will think of you. With this kind of attitude you wouldn't have gotten far with her in the first place.

What should I do? Should I talk to her saying my real intentions or ignore the situation?

Start using the information on this site and start chasing some tail out there, (not from work) and thus when she sees or hears that you are going after other women, the situation will be fixed by itself.

 

[KarmaSutra]

All right, here we go...


A year ago I started a job and met this girl named Michelle. Michelle was the first girl there I met and she was great. Overtime I developed feelings for her and had a secert crush on her. I kept my mouth shut because in the past and from the advice on this site, it taught me to keep my mouth silent.

I will translate:

I suffer from One-itis for a girl who has no idea who the fvck I am because I'm waiting for that one pristine, opportune moment to make my move. A moment that, sadly, will never come from waiting. Oh yeah, Michelle is also my soul mate.

There is an older woman I know there who treats me like a son, and asked me one day who I would date in the resturant. I said Michelle and there was this woman named Claire who was sitting there, who comes in drunk that over heard me say that. My worst fears came to be when Claire came in drunk and told Michelle.

Oh no My secret is out! What to do, what to do? I know, I'll hide behind my pseudo-mother and hope she can rectify my feelings for my loving Michelle

I felt really embarrassed and ashamed of myself at the sametime

You should. I hope it burns a hole in your sac and heart.

Michelle did not give any IO's so I moved on and became her friend. She was hookin up with this guy who she needed advice from. I gave it to her and that has been our relationship since then. I have become more comfortable with her and we bust on each other.

Last week, my mananger and Michelle were talking. She said she needed me for advice and he said why do you need him? he likes you. This came as a complete shock to her! She never knew my feelings for her till them which confused me and made me feel like ****.

She is my friend and I do not want her to think I swayed her away from that guy so I can make my move because I thought I had no chance.

What should I do? Should I talk to her saying my real intentions or ignore the situation?

I am Michelles' girlfriend! I'm so blessed!

Find a chick to latch onto who you won't run into at work everyday.

Remember this youngblood, IF YOU'RE NOT FVCKING HER YOU'RE HER GIRLFRIEND.

 

[oscarxp25]

thanks guys....I needed all that, my head was out of the game...


I love the honesty on this site..


peace

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Just ask Luke Skywalker. (member on the site here)

He's like the Yoda of dating and seduction.

 

[Nighthawk]

thanks guys....I needed all that, my head was out of the game...


I love the honesty on this site..


peace

I had no respect for the person who wrote that first post. I had lots of respect for the person who wrote that last one.

 

[Jay Jay]

I wouldn't count myself out of the game yet.

I think her shock was just an act.

I think a lot of guys who say you cannot come back from the friendship zone have never tried.

I don't think you should give up.

I agree that you have acted like a bit of a *****, but to admit defeat you are continuing to act like a *****.

I think if you advised a girl you liked to dump a guy and she did you are ****ing fool not to bust a move.

I think I start sentences with I too much.

JJ.

 

[rgeere]

Dude ... probably the biggest mistake you made was spending two billion years focus entirely on her like with some secret crush, like stuff like that is something you are suppose to hide. You know, if you are going to spend that long to try to get a girl, atleast spend it busting and teasing the hell out of her friends! You know, girls adjust their bodies to PMS at the same time for a reason sort of like how they can not control who they are attracted to, 'cause it is natural for girls to want guys that other girls want ... you get what I am saying? It is natural ... stop acting against nature!

And second ... why the hell did you tell that woman you were interested in this girl? You shouldn't have told her jack ... of course it is going to get around, because that was her intention. Don't blame the drunk b1tch for that one! Blame yourself!

In any case you screwed up ... you'll learn just keep studying and posting.