"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i need advice fast!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
theunflushables
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She says all guys are stupid then texts you and you are a guy. Pretty insulting because she either considers you a girlfriend or she doesn't mind insulting you.
If you have some balls you can send her a message to let her know you refuse to be her girlfriend.
Try this:
"Nice attitude, maybe you should call one of your girlfriends."
That should shock her a little. At least you won't have to deal with that bs anymore. Getting out of the friendzone isn't easy. You have to make a move and see where you stand.
Regardless of what happens at least you know and can move on.
Doc Freezy
Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Then after shes like "ok"
Then be like " we should chill"
She will agree and shes yours for the abusin
But every one in a while you got to keep destroying her confidence again and then give her confidence.
This is how pimps make ho's need them.You give her the poison then sell her the solution. Then you give her the poison again, then sell her the solution.
Doc Freezy
Don Juan
