"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I Need Advice Asap Please!!!! Im About To Fight

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MY GIRLFRIEND'S EX IS TALKING ABOUT HE WANTS HER BACK AND HE LOVES HER ON FACEBOOK AND THAT HE WOULD KILL ANY GUY WHO SAYS OTHERWISE. HE'S JUST GOING OFF AT THE MOUTH NOT COMING AT ME DIRECTLY YET. THIS HAS ME BOILING INSIDE BUT MY CONSCIENCE SOMETHING I DONT WANNA BE LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW IS TELLING ME CALM DOWN AND LEAVE THE WHOLE THING ALONE BUT I CANT LEAVE SITUATIONS LIKE THIS ALONE IT EATS ME UP INSIDE FOR YEARS AND PLUS I WILL FEEL LIKE LESS OF A MAN IF I DONT RESPOND TO THIS

can somebody please tell me what to do im coming here because i dont wann do something stupid
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tiguere

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its your girlfriend's job to settle this. You have nothing to do here. Next time find a girl who isnt on the rebound.
 

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Your with her, this guy means nothing to you. I don't care if he calls you out. Don't even acknowledge him. You are the alpha wolf, he is the little one nipping at your heels. Beating him will just make you look bad. However, if he comes at you physically lay his ass out.
 

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its a recession pay me and ill glaly stomp his azz out. seriously tho id ignore it, i mean fight if it gets physical but before you do make sure you report him to the man so he will be arrested and you will be in self defense
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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f283000

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Tiguere said:
its your girlfriend's job to settle this. You have nothing to do here. Next time find a girl who isnt on the rebound.
And you know what happens in these situations? The girl goes with whoever is the alpha male between the 2. Never mind that you probably treat her 100% better, never mind that her ex was probably an a**hole that treated her bad.

The moment the ex comes back for "whats his" suddenly women get into a trance, forget everything and just wait to see who the alpha male between you 2 is and who will get to keep her. Women are put on by a trance by the show of aggressiveness in the part of their ex to get them back.

Most of the time in these situations the ex wins for the simple fact that it's usually very aggressive males that come back to get a woman they feel it is "rightfully theirs," even if they already have moved on/have a bf. The weaker bf they currently have now is kinda powerless to stop them.

This is nothing new it's been having since the days of cavemen. Back in ancient days the alpha male of the tribe would fight and steal the woman of the weaker male. Never mind that he could have another one he just had to have this particular woman.

This is why i always say never take women too seriously.
 

Ease

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f283000 said:
And you know what happens in these situations? The girl goes with whoever is the alpha male between the 2. Never mind that you probably treat her 100% better, never mind that her ex was probably an a**hole that treated her bad.

The moment the ex comes back for "whats his" suddenly women get into a trance, forget everything and just wait to see who the alpha male between you 2 is and who will get to keep her. Women are put on by a trance by the show of aggressiveness in the part of their ex to get them back.

Most of the time in these situations the ex wins for the simple fact that it's usually very aggressive males that come back to get a woman they feel it is "rightfully theirs," even if they already have moved on/have a bf. The weaker bf they currently have now is kinda powerless to stop them.

This is nothing new it's been having since the days of cavemen. Back in ancient days the alpha male of the tribe would fight and steal the woman of the weaker male. Never mind that he could have another one he just had to have this particular woman.

This is why i always say never take women too seriously.
You heard the man.

Say 'come at me bro im not scared'. I've made this mistake before and i was unaware of what was going on. I was the ex and she was comparing to her new boyfriend. The more aggressive, alpha dominant one will win the girl.
 

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Pdizzzzzzle said:
Your with her, this guy means nothing to you. I don't care if he calls you out. Don't even acknowledge him. You are the alpha wolf, he is the little one nipping at your heels. Beating him will just make you look bad. However, if he comes at you physically lay his ass out.
I loled at the physically lay his ass out part.

Its never to late to hit the gym and/or take up a martial art ..there will always be someone who wants to fight..and this goes on through your entire life.. I learnt this lesson many times.
 
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