"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I need action date help

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I'm seeing this great girl.

When I met her the other day we saw a film, then wandered in and out of various bars.
Obviously I can't repeat this.

I need an action date to keep things exciting.

If it was bloody cold out, where would you take a girl on a 2nd date?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ice skating works well...
 
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comedy club is f*cken awesome.

Search for comedy club post by mindovermatter for an awesome date plan.
 
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Mini Golf. :D

Theme Park. :woo:

Hazard Driving. :rolleyes:

Something sporty like Rock Climbing. ;)

Edit, oh, wait... didn't read the 'cold' bit.

Hmm... really, can't help you there. I'm South African. ;) Winter dates aren't my speciality.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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