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It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

I need a way of talking to/crowdsourcing information from women who have built up high body counts.

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Even chicks into casual sex want sex with a worthy man. A worthy man is sexy and checks all the boxes, whether or not she wants an LTR. Remember women always want what they cannot have.

I have a plate that it’s easily an 8.5 and 10 years my junior. She’s volatile but a great lay and looks utterly delectable.

With all the up and downs in our association- I’ve told her to go pound dirt repeatedly - she always begs herself back. She claims to love me, but her idea of love is based on situational stuff, she is absolutely not LTR material. She wants me because she knows that I’m higher value than she is. I symbolize respectability and what she knows she should aspire to - but she has a mouth like a sailor and is defiantly cluster B. Tons of male friends blah blah blah. Everything all of us say to walk from.

She has spent her life getting a puzzay pass from men, she developed her bad habits as a result of this. She is always blown away that I will call her on her **** and tell her to gtfo. It truly blows her mind that reject her.

Still I bang her - why? Because she’s hot af and a gal with her looks and physique are unicorns where I live.

She gets her validation, I get hotness and great sex.

Still, it will never go beyond this.

It still is a shyte show from time to time. The moment I find a woman that checks all my boxes she’s history. Until then I’ll fiddle while Rome burns.
 
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Even chicks into casual sex want sex with a worthy man. A worthy man is sexy and checks all the boxes, whether or not she wants an LTR. Remember women always want what they cannot have.

I have a plate that it’s easily an 8.5 and 10 years my junior. She’s volatile but a great lay and looks utterly delectable.

With all the up and downs in our association- I’ve told her to go pound dirt repeatedly - she always begs herself back. She claims to love me, but her idea of love is based on situational stuff, she is absolutely not LTR material. She wants me because she knows that I’m higher value than she is. I symbolize respectability and what she knows she should aspire to - but she has a mouth like a sailor and is defiantly cluster B. Tons of male friends blah blah blah. Everything all of us say to walk from.

She has spent her life getting a puzzay pass from men, she developed her bad habits as a result of this. She is always blown away that I will call her on her **** and tell her to gtfo. It truly blows her mind that reject her.

Still I bang her - why? Because she’s hot af and a gal with her looks and physique are unicorns where I live.

She gets her validation, I get hotness and great sex.

Still, it will never go beyond this.

It still is a shyte show from time to time. The moment I find a woman that checks all my boxes she’s history. Until then I’ll fiddle while Rome burns.
She loves you? See, I'm not looking for that. I don't want her to love me because I will not love her. I just want mutual casualness.
 

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She loves you? See, I'm not looking for that. I don't want her to love me because I will not love her. I just want mutual casualness.
Sometimes, it cannot be avoided. Ask any guy who’s got a few decades’ worth experience.
 
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If she's been with 500 guys, that tells me she's into casual relationships. I don't want her to be my girlfriend, I just wanna be able to splash every now and then when we're both up to it.

Every other woman I find is looking for "commitment." And so she's thinking "Can I really 'be with' this guy?" And that governs her choices on whether or not to have sex with him. Most women are having sex with men they expect to also share romantic/personal connections with. Steady and exclusive. Me, I don't wanna be tied down and she shouldn't want to be either.
The problem is you think that she’s telling you the truth but you don’t even know what the truth is. Anyone can come up with some random numbers to make themselves look good unless you’ve spoken to her best friend or you’ve spoken to her ex-boyfriend, you wouldn’t really know the truth. Sometimes men lie about the body count too because they don’t wanna seem like a player. Or they just give a number that’s high to give the impression to the girl they know what the hell they’re doing. The point of all this is women usually don’t mean what they say and I think that’s the most important principle here. I’ve had numerous girls over and over that when a girl says something, they may not mean it.

My point was rather than trying to find out what her body count is focus on yourself and just enjoy it and observe the red flags and make your own decision. Ultimately humans and women have the tendency to drop you facts about themselves when you least expect it. Women sometimes when you least expect it blurt out some kinky think they did, which will take you by surprise and either make your hate or lover.

I think we men often become gullible when we like a woman and that can cloud our judgement.
 

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The problem is you think that she’s telling you the truth but you don’t even know what the truth is. Anyone can come up with some random numbers to make themselves look good unless you’ve spoken to her best friend or you’ve spoken to her ex-boyfriend, you wouldn’t really know the truth. Sometimes men lie about the body count too because they don’t wanna seem like a player. Or they just give a number that’s high to give the impression to the girl they know what the hell they’re doing. The point of all this is women usually don’t mean what they say and I think that’s the most important principle here. I’ve had numerous girls over and over that when a girl says something, they may not mean it.

My point was rather than trying to find out what her body count is focus on yourself and just enjoy it and observe the red flags and make your own decision. Ultimately humans and women have the tendency to drop you facts about themselves when you least expect it. Women sometimes when you least expect it blurt out some kinky think they did, which will take you by surprise and either make your hate or lover.

I think we men often become gullible when we like a woman and that can cloud our judgement.
If a woman is like "Oh yeah I was suckin' ****s since I was a freshman" but she's actually lying, I'm still willing to hear her feedback. Because my question is "How do I become one of the men who gets their **** sucked by you?" Because I want her above other women to suck my ****. I want my **** sucked without needing to become someone this woman could love romantically or be with exclusively. I'm looking to be one of many, because I want her to be one of many for me.
 

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she developed her bad habits as a result of this. She is always blown away that I will call her on her ****
I noticed a while back if you are kind to woman she will barely reply in DM

you criticise her and she will reply in 4 inch paragraphs that take up your whole phone, this is how big the ego is of the modern woman
 

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A chick with a high body count is simply a whœr with a very low price. :rolleyes:
 

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OP you're approaching your question like a man would. You're looking for a woman who doesn't want a relationship. But sex is almost always an advance payment on a possible relationship. Even women out for a one nighter are choosing men they'd choose for a relationship. So quit worrying about targeting a mythical creature who just wants sex. Work on being their target.
 

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OP you're approaching your question like a man would. You're looking for a woman who doesn't want a relationship. But sex is almost always an advance payment on a possible relationship. Even women out for a one nighter are choosing men they'd choose for a relationship. So quit worrying about targeting a mythical creature who just wants sex. Work on being their target.
Whose target? The women looking for a relationship? I don't have a relationship to offer.
 

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Yes those women. And don't lie to anyone but don't get in a relationship.
 

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@Parallelophone

Brother: what we’re trying to tell you is that even the most invertebrate hoe is going to want to boink a guy that’s eligible and desirable for a relationship that’s all. You’re going to need to source your own hoe’s - most of us here do not value chicks that have been run through.

Maybe try escort services, exotic dancers, strip clubs?
 

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Brother: what we’re trying to tell you is that even the most invertebrate hoe is going to want to boink a guy that’s eligible and desirable for a relationship that’s all. You’re going to need to source your own hoe’s - most of us here do not value chicks that have been run through.

Maybe try escort services, exotic dancers, strip clubs?
I know, I was responding to say "If I don't wanna be with a woman seeking a relationship, it's not really sound advice to tell me to try and get got by a woman seeking a relationship."
 

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I know, I was responding to say "If I don't wanna be with a woman seeking a relationship, it's not really sound advice to tell me to try and get got by a woman seeking a relationship."
What we are saying is that deep down women are genetically programmed to want relationships with men. If you want flat out promiscuity you should switch teams - my gay bud tells me Grndr is amazing for that, he literally has young guys in a few hours whenever he wants them.

You want a hot chick that behaves like a man, they really don’t exist bro.
 
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