"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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I"m in college right now and I met this girl in which I've come to be highly attracted to. Aside from that when we first met their was instant chemistry.

She punched me, slapped my ass, tons of kino and lastly, I attacked back with tons of flirtatious talking and smirking.

Anyways its been two weeks and we still talk flirtatiously and she gives me this wierd face everytime i look at her she still hits me and pinches my nipples. But I haven't got her number yet because I haven't asked. However, her birthday was on Wednesday and on Tuesday I asked her if she was down for dinner on Friday but she was unsure about it.

I went to Tapioca, where she works and I happened to notice that she stares at me and laughs and gives me the usual face. But there was an accident when a customer happen to spill his drink and this guy who seems to happen to know her much longer than I have volunteered to clean it up for her and he got a kiss on the cheek. Anyways it seems as if that guy might be interested in her. I"m skeptical whereas our situation lies.

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dude dude dude DO NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE OF TAKING UR TIME WITH WOMEN. SHE LIKES U. DONT LET HER INTEREST FADE...MAKE A MOVE...ASK FOR HER #, CHIL LWID HER MAN TOUCH HER BREASTS HAVE FUNN

and about the other guy hes probably just a friend, but u should of found out from the beginning whether or not she was single. she hits on u man hit on her back ask her out **** her man stop wasting time. who cares if she kisses him on the cheek shes a girl they do that cheek dont mean ****. dont offer to clean up for her thats her job. just dont care so much about this girl i can see it already u falling for her dont do it.
 
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Dude she wants your ass big time! You've got crazy IOIs. Don't even ask for her number, just arrange a meeting. It doesnt have to be a big deal, just chill at the park for an hour that evening. The longer you leave it, the higher the chance that someone (like that guy) might beat you to her.

She kissed him on the CHEEK. If they were a couple it would have been on the lips! Every girl you meet will have at least 1 guy in their life, and you now what? none of them will be DJs, or even a PUA. They are all AFCs of varying degrees. You're the best thing that will happen to her, just make a move and let her receive you.

And never visit their work. Its too obvious, and you won't be able to have time on your own.
 
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