"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I need a quick plan

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davester88

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So, the girl that was flirting with me a lot before, has now really seemed to ease off, and has gone into the guy that nobody really likes, and is really a fag. I need a quick plan to win her back. I

'm not in love with her at all, but I want that hot bod back on my lap where it belongs again. But she has been sitting on HIS lap lately, kind of cuddling up to him. I just need something quick, because I plan on making a move on her tommorow.

I've been trying to think of something ****y and funny but at the same time a bit serious to see what her reaction is. I think I could have a decent chance with this girl anyways

Thanks, any help is appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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f her and on to the next one
 
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StrangeButTrue

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It's probably a test to make you jealous. And it's working.

Act the same way you did before.
 
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DJ Hawtness

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Let her know that you won't take her bull****.

Now of course don't swear (it's a turnoff to women), but be firm and DON'T BE NERVOUS TO SAY THIS TO HER.

She'll see right through you if you're nervous to tell her this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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