"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i need a quick answer

randalll

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ok this girls coming over in about an hour, i think i might have caught chlamydia from her but i havent been tested yet.
if i have got it it's definately from her.
should i tell her i think ive got it or wait untill ive been tested positively for it... or not tell her at all?

anyone been in this situation before.. lemme know what happened, what i should say etc.

thanks

randall
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mavrick

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If you got it, cut her loose, but let her know that you got a dirty disease from her.
 

DonJuanit0

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I've been in this situation but she was my gf and it happened in the first days of our relationship! Well I told her immediately for many reasons! Protection and Health> everything mate!
 
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