"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I need a new hobby.

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Well, i used to like cars fast ones drifting and computer games.

i just wonder what i can do now to make myself a valueable contribution to mankind! lol.

I am thinking about learning to play a musical instrument, as we all know, if you have nothing you would attract nothing.

Right now i have no hobbies or commitments or career to go to. any suggestions fellow DJs ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheMaestro87

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We need more information than this. You're 23 from Australia... done with school? Athletic? Resources you have available?

Off the top of my head, make like Joe Hachem and make a couple million dollars.
 

young_gun

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Get a guitar. Best $500 I ever spent.
 

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What's wrong with fast cars? I know it's very expensive- but women of all shapes and sizes, gravitate to fast cars. For me- it is the ONE THING that binds two otherwise different creatures nicely. They like the wind in their pretty faces, they like to be seen in hot rides, and they LOVE the rumble between their legs. Men need their TOYS. Especially when they reach their late thirties. Call it stress-relief on wheels; driving your therapy; testosterone replacement machine, etc. I love cars, racing, the culture, women, you name it.......I'll drop everything for a Paddock Pass to any major race!
 

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Work on yourself. That's a hobby that you'll always be able to benefit from.

Build a car. Any jackass can go buy a Corvette and feel great about his 4" ****.

Learn guitar, or piano, or whatever the hell you feel like doing.

Build some furniture, or a deck, or hell, even an entire house.

Wear flannel. (I don't know if it will get the ladies, but a real man wears flannel when he's building things.)

Do all the things that interested you even slightly when you were but a wee lad.

Live life like you mean it!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jay Z - Blue Magic. lol i relate well to this shytz.

I am good, i do weights i have hot bod, i dont have a stable job but i got the cash, i may need to built on abit more soul....
 

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Sarging hot babes is considered a hobby.
 

Ken785

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TRAVEL. See the world and get a wider range of experience and knowledge...even bring back some stories to tell the ladies and friends! Women love men who have been all over, it fascinates them and they wanna know more.
 

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Yeah, 2nd the travel idea, especially if you have no commitments. That opportunity won't last forever. If you have a college degree, you might consider teaching English as a foreign language abroad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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join a sport, being part of a team gives you a good sense of self accomplishment
 

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i also need a new hobby. im from Portugal 16 years and no i dont like to play guitar or any other instrument
 

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Nothing wrong with fast cars....Im doing Motorsport at University....working with racing teams over the year etc......thats a "mysterious" hobby....better than just workin on some old car in your own garage.......I also play guitar.....basically....do anything your interested in......dont just give up on cars and drifting etc...drifting has recently become a major sport due to its popularity.....its all creative
 
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