"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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By the looks of things you'll do just fine SD. You already know the end result. He'll be a distant memory like all distant momories, almost forgotten.

I have a question. Is the reason that it hurts so much because you felt violated? Robbed? Like a crime has been commited on you and yet in this case there is no law system to run to because in this instant this criminal act is being permitted.
To read this whole thread is an act of human endurance. I did not consume it all and for that i incorrectly misjudged you. Your no AW.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SunnyD said:
Maybe other things you are saying are right (Other than my being an AW...give me a break. I see thread after thread of you guys all here posting the same type things. Thanks MacAvoy..atleast you get it.) Anyway, as for the above bolded quote...I can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that he cannot come back "and lay me whenever." It will never happen. And I doubt I'll be thinking of him forever either. Like MacAvoy pointed out, I don't love him. If right now I think back to all the guys I was hung up over, I realize I haven't thought about them in years. At the time, I thought I'd never get over them..but I did.

So I know I'll get over this too. It's just fresh right now, and yes MacAvoy it was 6 months before this latest incident but we still talked every single day and he talked like we'd still be getting together. Like I said, he was still calling me all the time to hookup but I knew she was in the picture. I figured once she was out of it, I'd be down for it...but he lied, she's still there...and I choose to be out.
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Yeh you will be ok , you are just being a "female AFC" right now, if there is such a thing..LOL We have all been there..
 
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