"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i have a problem thats making want to blow it of my head with a bullet.about i was going out with this girl for like a moth and half we didnt do it:( but we had great chemestry.about a week ago she told me that she still had fellings for her ex who she had no seen in a year and saw him when she went to visit the guys sister, they saw each other said hi and thats it(according to her.)that **** is the next day she came to me and said that she was gonna be honest and that she didnt want to be with be while having felling for another because its wrong.the point is that i was alright with me and i did not care much so we stood friends we talk to each other and when i see her i feel nothing but the problem is i cant stop thinking about her my friend is pissed at me couse i think too much about her.my question is why the fu** do i think about her so much if dont care about us breaking up and how can i stop.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Infatuation.. Its a real b***h, happens to everyone.

The sad truth is the only way around it is to have multiple girls going at once so you don't get fixed on one of them and couldn't care less if they dump you. If you don't like being like that, then do what I do. Only seriously have one going at a time but have several others that you interact with a bit and know for sure that they would accept if you asked them out. I got a LJBF recently, same poblem as you took too long to try anything then it was too late, but I was like whatever, your loss. I have plenty of others in line waiting.

If you know you have options, you tend not to care if one dumps you. Or at least not care as much and get into the thinking of them the whole time frame.
 
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