Livinlifehard, see the first thing i wrote in this post, after being an ass for 4 months....
I never give myself any credit for any old gf to want to get back with me, just cuz i am tired of the 'you'll never do better than me' and 'no one will love you as much as me' bs that people tell. maybe they will, maybe they wont...but i will never believe that i was soooo good that they want me back, even though i try my best to do so
3 days ago, i get a phone text, not an email, saying 'i was making blablabla and i thought of you'
i could read into this if i want, think what i want, until her new bf is done being a jerk...or they are done fighting, and its like it never happened.
Why does an ex go out of their way to go through '4 boxes of crap' to find an old photo album of you and her...say to you that she was specifically looking for it - saying she misses you -THATS putting alot out there for a girl. That really puts the 'guard down'. What guy would do that??....so why would they do it?