"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"i miss u" (read and answer asap)

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is it bad to say these 3 words? i really miss this girl, i feel like im being afc about this. but my heart says i miss this girl.

should i follow my heart and say so? i just feel like letting her know how i feel.

edit: girl is ill and is diagnosed to be deseased in 3-6 months. :( i just honestly wanna let her know how i feel.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hollowpoint

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she is your friend, yes?

I really don't see the problem with telling her how you feel in this situation...
 

deeloo

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guys it doesnt ****ING MATTER WHAT IS AFC OR NOT ANYMORE.. this girl is ABOUT TO DIE SOON.. why are you even worrying about this? GO, TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.. god damn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lost In Translation

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if you are just expressing your feelings for her before she dies as a friend do it.

if you are seeing her or you are in a relationship that has a foundation with her. do it.

if you are hoping to hook up with her, start a relatioship with her or whatever then the usual dj rules apply NO MATTER WHAT.

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the original poster has been VAGUE as to what he wants apart from telling her " i miss you " and WHAT HE HOPES FOR IN RETURN

seriously if this girl is as you say then why even ask our opinions ?

in my opinion is a bit unusual saying you miss her when she isn't dead yet !!!! how will this make her feel ? what if she by a miricle from God recovers ?

a dj doesn't seek approval from others.

to me you sound like your will REGRET not telling her before she passes away.

but like i said if you are planning to tell her IN THE HOPE she will say it back to you WATCH OUT. usual dj rules apply.

depends on your motive which you have also been VAGUE with.



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AFK Protector

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Originally posted by deeloo
guys it doesnt ****ING MATTER WHAT IS AFC OR NOT ANYMORE.. this girl is ABOUT TO DIE SOON.. why are you even worrying about this? GO, TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL.. god damn.
well, it's called, "HE EDITED THE FVCKING POST AFTER WE POSTED."

moving on...i'd say, just spend some time with her all. don't get too attached cuz you'll be hurt too. and don't let her get too attached cuz then she's gonna die real painfully crying and thinking about what coulda been and never had been, etc. etc. boohoo. lots of crying. you miss her ? good. do something about it.
 

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This is a perfect time to throw some mixed signals at her. Tell her you miss her then dissapear for a good while. You can thank me later homie.
 

bootlegger

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Neg hit her about her condition.




seriously though... Why are you discussing this on here. She's going to die, and you are going to be chatting about her on a website.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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