"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Misled You All

Chosen1

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I'm very sorry I told everybody here that I was going to basic training. I was supposed to ship out today. I know it may seem like I lied because I really expected to go to basic. here is my story I really did not lie.

I will try to explain the process as best I can. I went a few months ago to enlist in infantry.Two months ago I weighed 227 lbs and my waist was 39in. They then said my bodyfat was 25%, and I enlisted . When I did my inspect today I was taller by an half inch and I had lost two pounds since my last vistit. My neck was the same but my waist was a little bit bigger.

So they disqualifed me. This time they said my bodyfat was 28% even though I lost 2lbs. When I went the first time I was 236 they said I had to drop down to 224lbs and I almost did. Now they say I have to lose 14 more pounds. This will be my fourth time going. I don't really want to say goodbye to my family again and I'll probably seek and ELS because I can't handle this anymore. I really will be going offline because I expected to make money,and now my dreams are disrupted.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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penkitten

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perhaps you should not go into the army.
perhaps you should be doing something else.
 

Driven2Succeed

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hey bud, i PM'd u..

i wouldn't give up so easily, and trust me, in Infantry basic u will LOSE A LOT OF WEIGHT.. i mean its like 13 weeks i believe and u will be moving the whole time.. if ur 235 now, i garuntee after basic u will be down around 200 and in best shape of ur life..

the key to passing the tape test is to make ur neck grow and ur waist shrink.. its kinda crazy cuz a lot of people lose weight but aren't clear because their necks get smaller, and as we know the waist is the last place to lose weight, so its kinda crappy..

but yea, def go back to MEPS..

i commend u for joining man, it takes a lot of balls.. but the things u gain in the long run are priceless and the possibilities are endless in the Army.. esp as an infantry man.. oh and before u enlist i would recommend getting Airborne in your contract too.. because that will pretty much garuntee u fort bragg and the 82nd Airborne, 173rd over in Vicenza, Italy, or the 172nd up in Alaska.. then theres always RANGER Battalion if u wanna do that kinda thing?? other than that u will either go to 1st Inf Div at Riley in Kansas, 2nd in Korea, 3rd at Stewart in Georgia, 4th at Hood in Texas, 10th Mountain at Drum in NY, 25th in Hawaii, or 101st at Campbell..

so yea, go back and aim to correct ur problem.. maybe i'll see u at Bragg sometime early next year?
 

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You are going to try and stand up as tall as possible when they measure you height, even if your heels come up a little bit if they can't see you to give you an extra quarter inch and stretch your neck out.

When they measure your neck, just put your shoulders up a little let your neck relax and sink down so its not stretched out and this will give you an extra .5 to 1 inch on your neck. Then stand up as tall as possible when they measure your waist so it will ever so slightly elongate your torso and make your waist just barely smaller.

Plus in the mean time run like crazy, cause you will need it to get yourself starting in shape for basic. Oh and the last thing is you will want to dehydrate yourself a little bit the week before you go again. Do this by not eating any sodium(salt) in any foods, and have absolutely no carbs(no bread, pasta, candy, sugar, coke) for at least 3 days before. You probably will drop 10 lbs in pure water weight just doing that. As well as don't eat for at least 6 hours before showing up so your not bloated.

But most of all run and exercise and do some research on eating right. If this really is your dream and passion, then you won't have much trouble keeping to a diet.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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