"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I might need psychological help

Nobody

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In my dating career, I've liked get this:
6 Christinas
3 Marias
3 Nicoles


Sure I have liked a couple of others, but has anyone ever had that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mission

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All my girlfriends had moved to my city from somewhere else:
1 from Poland
1 from Russia
1 from Switzerland
1 from Austrailia
1 from South Africa
1 from Vancouver

Course, thats just the "relationships" hook ups there have been no wierd sightings aha.

--Mission
 

don juan jr

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Mission said:
All my girlfriends had moved to my city from somewhere else:
1 from Poland
1 from Russia
1 from Switzerland
1 from Austrailia
1 from South Africa
1 from Vancouver

Course, thats just the "relationships" hook ups there have been no wierd sightings aha.

--Mission
heh, you listed all countries except vancouver lol. didn't think anyone would catch that or what?

i haven't had any relationships :( YET.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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hahaha isnt being single is what Djing is about? no baggage attached, you can hook up more and go on more dates without worrying about your rep??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jmm854

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First of all, the don juan philosophy isn't about being single or taken. It's about being happy. Being fulfilled. Being who the f*ck you wanna be. This can take place either own your own or with a lady to compliment.

And this post has absolutely nothing to do with anything. So you're attracted to girls with the same names, that's good for you buddy. But a waste of a post. Especially in this forum. And Mission I highly recommend you get yourself checked for STD's if you're going to continue to dine for b*tches at the world buffet.
 

Dandrufman

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Names of gf's are a bit of a fluke. Also, most names are related somewhat to physical characteristics (ever met a white girl named Sha'niqua), so its possible that certain names are characteristic of the kind of things you look for in a girl. Or maby you need help, i dunno.
 
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