I have told the story on this forum for the past year and a half of a full blown blond hair blue eyed smoking fvckin hot BPD I have been seeing since Dec of 2016.I met her on Tinder Dec 7 2016 (pearl harbor day ) I started talking to her and she immediately showed sky high interest.We talked for 10 days and I asked her for her address.She had been sending me nude pics of herself for 10 days.I showed up at her house around 7 pm Dec 17 (a Saturday).She poured me a drink and within 10 minutes of chit chat I was dragged to her bedroom for what would be one of 10 hot sex sessions that night.Her sister was watching her two kids across the street but she got tired of them and brought them home around 11 pm and she introduced me to them the first day!!.Now I am a seasoned DJ and knew all of these were "red flags" she sent the kids to bed and we locked the bedroom door.For the next 20 months she would drive down to see me (95) miles to be exact every other weekend.I would go up and see her the other weekends so we would rotate.She paid for my drinks,cooked me good dinners,would always have a bottle ready for me to drink and just about anything I wanted in the bedroom.She would constantly tell me that I was "fvcking hot" and "super smart" (false ego inflation) a hallmark of a Siren (BPD) She had daddy issues that I enjoyed.I knew the devaluation stage was coming but I was holding rock solid frame (so she couldn't bust through) It finally ended last Saturday (I think ) when she borrowed my truck to go to the liquor store and hit a curb or something and threw out the alignment apparently (I called her on it ) she denied it said I was trying to scam her and did a hard ghosting.I fully expect a hoover as I have gone full NC,but even if she does not WHAT A FVCKING RIDE !!! Can anyone top this duration and intensity of love bombing?? (I don't think so ) It was so intense that even though I was aware of what was going on the whole time,her pvssy was such a strong drug that I forgot myself several times and had to forcefully distance myself to come back to reality.I DO NOT recommend to a novice to try this.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I might have set the record for the longest love bomb in fvcking world history
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Macaframalama
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Yea, damaged women are so much more fun honestly and the sex is always better. It's kind of funny, I've spent a good deal of my adult life contemplating on finding a straighter laced woman, while the damaged women I've dated will know she's fvcked up and ponder change for the better, but boring is boring. A few do, most dont. As long as a man knows who he is, stays grounded and knows, nor expects that nothing lasts forever, then they can be allot of fun. I highly recommend bpd's, so long as a man is capable of maintaining frame and can let chit roll off his back and mitigate getting caught up in the lows. A woman will never treat you better, then when she's trying to woo you and bpd's go hard in in that regard.
Yes they are fun and deadly at the same time.I think what many men don't understand is BPD's are out for blood..(your blood) and have a goal in mind for your destruction,you are in essence sleeping with the enemy.
RedScorpion
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Could not and would not recommend dating BPD’s myself. The whole time it feels like some sort of scam that they’re trying to pull on you. Like a used car salesman telling you exactly what you want to hear, in order for them to get what they want. They barely know you as a person (sometimes just barely knowing your name), and they look at you like you’re the most interesting thing in the world. Great feeling (especially when they’re very attractive) - but on some level you know it’s way faster than what should be normal.
As soon as they butter you up plenty, get you hooked, they’re more than willing to completely withdraw on some real or imaginary slight against them. It’s a level of erraticism that is mind boggling in context of normal people. Add it all together and to me it’s a sense of them trying to use you, plain and simple.
As soon as they butter you up plenty, get you hooked, they’re more than willing to completely withdraw on some real or imaginary slight against them. It’s a level of erraticism that is mind boggling in context of normal people. Add it all together and to me it’s a sense of them trying to use you, plain and simple.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
