"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i might be getting double teamed tonight..

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so i was texting one of my girls right now and after a little bit of sexual talk (basically she likes it rough) I told her after shes finished drinking she should come over.. and she texts back saying haha why do you want to bang? me and stephanie are going to double team you and i text back saying im fine with that (i was trying to think of the most non-afc thing to say) and she said too bad your mom would not allow it :) and i text back saying oh and yours would? shes dead asleep across the house and then she texts back saying ok ill let you know..

i got my hopes up but its not 100% wish me luck brothas! :box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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girls say sh!t like that for pure shock value.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I've had girls say things like that to me. It never happend. Maybe because, I was still learning the Don Juan ways back then. Your best bet is if you are drinking with them then, spit game at them and make the three way happen.
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=729077

I have posted about it before. The key to the 3som is managing your gf's jealousy. You have to make it about her, not about you getting to fvck her friend. It's thin ice - she's can't start to even suspect that you have the hots for her friend, or the 3som will crash and burn. Focus your attention on her, then on her being with her friend, and then you are just kind of there for them to enjoy after they get carried away with each other. If your gf leaves the room to go to the bathroom, don't be making out with the other chick when she gets back. I fvcked up that way once.

Relax, have fun, don't be in too big of a rush, make it about your gf, and booze is your friend, at least to give to them :)
 

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haha well the thing is these are the girls i slept with the other day if you read my "dancing a success" post but the main girl i was texting is the hotter of the two and even if she was joking about the 3 some which i didn't mind because the other one is a little on the big side but still do able. there still was the chance of just me and the one i was texting if not a three some but **** ill have to wait for this weekend for that pu$$y, guys its been a long for me! ahhh
 
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