"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I met what you americans call a BlondeBombshell

SamePendo

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You guys, and tv are how I know American culture. I've met many other "Americans" (I prefer calling them citizens of the USA, because I'm American too, because I'm from America the continent).

Anyways.

I was doing my thing on Monday, and see this hb come and check out the gym with another one. I was doing my thing, so I just got a glance of her, she's hot! First impression: blonde, white, and green eyes. Now, maybe you guys are used to seeing these blonde bombshells since you were born, but I'm not, and neither are all of the guys here.

So, I see her again on Tuesday. Every mofo just stared at her man. It was crazy. And of course, your boy was the only one chatting her up, not even the gym instructor! So she tells me her American name, and it took my by surprise, since she had very good spanish. And we start talking in english.

I told her how she was mean like all women for just liking me for my body, and not actually like me for me. And that if she wanted to seduce me she didn't have to try so hard, and what she should do is take me out to dinner and ask me about what I like to do, about my feelings. She tells me that it's me who should ask her out. I asked her some fluff about some average stuff, and turns out she comes and goes to another city, and I ask why she's here, since the buissiness is in the other city, and she tells me that her bf lives here. I ignored ofcourse.

The next day (I think that the thing I said above was the next day too) I ask her what she did yesterday besides trying and seduce me. She says nothing. Basicaly this chick does nothing except go around, her buissiness mantains itself. I'm just telling you the highlights of the convo ok? .. So I ask if she's shy, and she tells me no, that she's just like that because she's new and that people in my city are not open (which is true). And I tell her that she is, because she's obviously dying to ask me out. She laughs and says something, don't remember what really, and I went back to excercise, then I went and told her that since she was too shy to ask me out, I was going to do so, took out my mobile and told her to write her number down so that I called her to hang out. She says that she lives with her bf here so that would be kind of difficult. So, no.

Well, today I talked with her. And this is the reason I'm posting. I asked her what she used to do for a living, and she just giggles and laughs and tells me "nothing, my husband was rich so I didn't have to do anything". :eek: I told her I was going to be on the lookout with her because she surely wanted to get married with me to get my money (I regretted saying that as soon as I started, but I managed to make it sound ok). I forgot what was said after, but she then said that now she's rich so she doesn't need to marry any rich guy anymore, and winks.

So. I don't do things exactly as said here because of the obvious cultural differences. Small small details. But still, I'll be gaming her american style.

I'll try to win Texas back one woman at a time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol... SamePendo.
Cheers man.

Its only natural that one of our trademark BlondeBombShells would have that effect on you. Glad to see you took the bull by the horns. GET IT!
 
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