I met a girl at my work, should I send her an emaill?

[Pr0lab]

Hey...

So this is the story.
The other day I sold comp. at a place I work to a 23 yr old girl and her mom. The girl was really cute and we had a great interaction, because she was with her mom, I could not ask her out for coffee, nor I can do it anyway because of the store policy. Anyhow, I send her the receipt via email and I still remember it. I was thinking to send her an email, but I am not sure what should I say so I won't come across as a stalker.

This was the idea that came in to my mind:

"Hey,

My name is ____ I helped you to pick up a comp. yesterday.

Because I typed your email in for some reason I still remember it. anyhow I just want to say that I think that you an interesting persona to talk to. So I just want to see if you want to grab some coffee together sometime?

I usually do not do it from people in the store, but I really enjoyed the interaction that we had at_____."

What you guys think?

 

[jophil28]

The idea is to trigger emotion in her while she is reading your invitation, and humor is the way combined with just enough boldness...

Oh, and use her NAME, and avoid abbreviations.

Perhaps something like this..

Hey Hayley, Remember me ? I am that very helpful guy who assisted you in picking up a computer yesterday at ------.
I forgot to mention that we include an after-sales free consult . This offer is for a limited time only (or until you get married ) It is especially open to good looking women with a cute grin.

MY other office is Starbucks on -----street and I am always there being helpful Wednesday or Thursday nights around 7pm. Are you free?
Oh, there is no need to bring your sales invoice. I have a perfect memory for your face.

See you there...

PrOlaB

 

[vitor]

Why dont you look her up on facebook or something and try to seperate it from your work so that you do not get fired. I know it sounds stupid but on FB you can pretend to be her friend email her once or twice then go in for the date..

No point getting fired in this job market..

 

[romangod]

Hey,

My name is ____ I helped you to pick up a comp. yesterday.

Because I typed your email in for some reason I still remember it. anyhow I just want to say that I think that you an interesting persona to talk to. So I just want to see if you want to grab some coffee together sometime?

I usually do not do it from people in the store, but I really enjoyed the interaction that we had at_____."


What you guys think?

I think it's chumpish and weak. You're not asking her out for a coffee because you think she's an interesting person to talk to. You're asking her out because you'd like to eventually jump her bones. You're putting her on a pedestal with such lame words as "I think that you an interesting persona to talk to" and "So I just want to see...."

Be more direct and more confident.

Cheers!

 

[Pr0lab]

Why dont you look her up on facebook or something and try to seperate it from your work so that you do not get fired. I know it sounds stupid but on FB you can pretend to be her friend email her once or twice then go in for the date..

No point getting fired in this job market..

Good point !

 

[Pr0lab]

I think it's chumpish and weak. You're not asking her out for a coffee because you think she's an interesting person to talk to. You're asking her out because you'd like to eventually jump her bones. You're putting her on a pedestal with such lame words as "I think that you an interesting persona to talk to" and "So I just want to see...."

Be more direct and more confident.

Cheers!

Well I just want to be appropriate so I wont get fire is something comes up.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear PrOlab,
Listen to Vitor,it is entirely inapropriate to use the EMail address you gained from the store,in this Country it would violate our Privacy laws and you could find yourself in deep Poo-Poo.....If she was interested,she will be back,even more interesting if her Mother comes back.