I met a girl..a unstable one

[DIO9366]

Hii everyone

This is my first post here and I just want to let you guys know that

this place give me a warm feeling^^

Well here is my stoy, I met a girl in my class. She is the type of girl

who knows how to manipulate a man's heart.

There were a lots of guys went after her already before I asked her out.

So I thought I'd try her on cause I am new in my town and I don't quite

know too many girls around here. Anyway, so I asked her out for a movie.

It all went great. She left right after the movie cause she said she doesn't

want to stay late. I thought it was fine for a first date. and the next few day

she text me and said" daddy! it was a great time we had together! next time

let's do it again and this time its my treat! peace"

She cancel the appointment right before the next weekend cause she said

she had to go to her boss's dinner. I thought "fine" it's not the first time

women flake on me. nor her or I mention we had a movie appointment until

the week after. She went out with her guy friend's to nightclub. And then I

thought: What a unstable woman, she never treat her promise seriously. but

at that time, I may fell too deep into the situation..maybe too naive.

So I gave her a second chance. I texted her and said" the Artist is going to be out in theater"

She said she is free this saturday and we should go see it. of course she

flakes again on saturday and told me how about later this saturday or sunday? I am a little busy right now.

I started to felt that this woman show no respect to the apponiment we had.

So I didnt text back and went out with my guy friends. Later she text back

to me and maybe felt a little guilt. I still didnt reply. then a bit later she

called me and i didn't pick up the phone either.

until sunday, I started to feel soft again( how stupid i was) i text her and

asked her how r u feeling? she said she'd like to see the movie today but

she has to study, how about you check the schedule and i see if it works out.

when i told her how about 5? she text back and said i cant i have to study

at five. I felt a little sad because I fall too deep into her. I started to think

and text her maybe I did something wrong so she acted this way.

Her reply was rude and selfish but it wakes me. I knew from now on that she

is unstable and only think about herself and nothing else. So I didn't reply to

her. Later she came to me and act sweet and try to get my attention again.

I simply just tease her a bit, smile and leave. I never ask her out again.

She still act sweet and soft to me everytime she sees me.

so what do you guys think? does she worth it? is there any chance I and bed

her? or i simply just need to disappear from her forever?

 

[Gro0ver]

You sound like a nice guy. I too fall under this category. We "nice guys" have a lot to offer a girl but need to be careful about who we give our affections to.

This girl definitely isn't worth it and I think you know that really. She sounds like a "taker". These girls will take and take and give only when they need to keep you from pulling away.

You're too good for her, she's blown it twice and shouldn't get another chance. She hasn't made you feel good so don't give her any satisfaction.

Spin more plates dude, plenty more ladies out there who will make you feel good like you do to them

 

[Krueg]

1. Go to the DJ Bible section
2. Scroll down to the bottom section - Anti-Dumps Machine.
3. Read the Interest Level section.

This will have your answer :rockon:

Sounds to me like her Interest Level is low, playing games and flaking on you. I wouldn't waste your time trying to boost her attraction towards you.

 

[loveorlust]

Judging by her actions.. texting you, calling you, paying you attention, I say sure you could have bedded her. Big time. I think when you didn't take too much of her sh@t by not calling her or going out with her after she flaked on you for the second time it sky rocketed her interest in you. But at this point it's probably best if you leave it alone. Treat her like a play thing, like if you're bored one day and want some company, call or text her. Don't place too much importance or expect anything from her or any girl you meet. It never works. My most successful relationships happened with girls I never though I'd be serious with. I think Murhpy's law comes into play here.

Good luck and may you start banging hot tail like a rock star.

 

[mayfair]

Sounds like a time waster so tread carefully! I accept a woman flaking on me if ive already burned her out so its an even score but youve went 2 for 0 so just keep her at arms length.

By all means bang **** teases and attention *****s but dont let them inside your head to play there silly games, always ends in tears

Try and find a woman who atleast has enough respect for u to go out with u when u arrange and not mess u about

Into the wind pissing, springs to mind

 

[DIO9366]

thanks for the advice guys

Now I know she's the type of girl who is afriad to be a woman.

She think herself as a predator, guys are her prey. she use guys

so she can feel emotional fulfilled. She's probably afriad to have real sex

with real man. What a dumb ***** anyway!