"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I messed up

kk2004

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Me and my girl where at a Block party yest, and I was in a bad mood all day, first becasue I felt that she was ignoring me and then the next thing for some odd reason just pushed me over the edge, we where walking toward the dance floor and then she hears her favorite song, and she starts to go and dance with her best freind who is a girl. She doesnt even ask me if I wanted to join her, she just lets go of my hand and runns to the floor, while Im on the side, watching for about the length of two songs. I told her afterwards that If she loved me and cared for me, she would have come up to me and dragged me to the dance floor. I siad that she didnt even think about me while I watied on the side, I told her that if she loved me she wold have thought about me and came up to me and said "hey sweeti, come dance with me" but instead she thought that i didnt want to dance because i was standing on the side, and that she thought that if i wanted to dance i would have come on the dance floor, instead of me just standing there. I was standing there to just ask me to join her, i was waiting to see if she cared enough to think about me. She told me she did but said that she thought that I didnt want to.

I got soooo heated, that i told her that i was gonng to leave the party and guess what I did. She was crying the whole 4 hours for the rest of the party. SHe told me "The person who I wanted to stay the most with me, left the earliest" I told her that she didnt care for me, that she didnt think about me, otherwise she would have come up and asked me. She told me that I shold KNOW that she loves me and that she doesnt have to prove herself to me all the time and that if i wanted to dance I could have just walked up to teh floor and done it. I told her it was these little things that mattered, not big things, but just being considerate, and showing it in small ways. I got sooo mad, now all her friends think Im a as*hole, her best freind doesnt like me anymore and her cousins and everyone hate me.

What should i do. I already said I was very sorry.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nishbuk

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uhhh...wow, what?

dude...I don't think you're handling this well.

Have you read the DJ bible? Or at least Anti-dump's machine?
 

kk2004

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yeah

the book says i just just act like it doesnt matter. Be nonchalant aboiut the mistake i made.
 

nishbuk

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Re: yeah

Originally posted by kk2004
the book says i just just act like it doesnt matter. Be nonchalant aboiut the mistake i made.
I think you're caring too much about how she's treating you. It seems like you are being a little needy. Also, I'm not sure why you apologized? What was the reason? Everytime you apologize to a girl, you should have a DAMN good reason to do so. Not for little things like this. You are not showing strength.
 
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