"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I make no sense.

TheKarnivalShow

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Whenever I am in some classes, I sit there and try talking to people and make them laugh, I usually succeed at it but there are times when I just ramble basically making no sense. I'm one of the funniest guys in the school whenever I'm on my game. but by the middle of the week and sometimes the end I just say stuff and people are like "What the hell are you talking about?".

I guess I'm asking you guys for ways to consistently be calm and smooth. Now I know that it is impossible to not have the occasional screwup, I'm just asking for ways to stay in that state of mind that puts you on the top of your game.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ohiofutballa

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Your trying to hard

and try talking to people and make them laugh, I usually succeed at it but there are times when I just ramble basically making no sense.
Who says you need to be the class clown, to most people it comes naturally. Yes, I know having a sense of humor is huge not only in prospering with ladies, but in General Life. But when your forcing stuff it gets annoying, believe me i know people like you.

Just relax, know that you dont have to be the ADD kid in the class just to get their attention. Pop off a joke or ****y remark that you know is funny, save the annoying ramble for you Mother.
 

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slow down when you speak. when people talk fast, they tend to mumble. the only thing theyll find funny about that is how stupid it sounds.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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