"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheKarnivalShow

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Whenever I am in some classes, I sit there and try talking to people and make them laugh, I usually succeed at it but there are times when I just ramble basically making no sense. I'm one of the funniest guys in the school whenever I'm on my game. but by the middle of the week and sometimes the end I just say stuff and people are like "What the hell are you talking about?".

I guess I'm asking you guys for ways to consistently be calm and smooth. Now I know that it is impossible to not have the occasional screwup, I'm just asking for ways to stay in that state of mind that puts you on the top of your game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ohiofutballa

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Your trying to hard

and try talking to people and make them laugh, I usually succeed at it but there are times when I just ramble basically making no sense.
Who says you need to be the class clown, to most people it comes naturally. Yes, I know having a sense of humor is huge not only in prospering with ladies, but in General Life. But when your forcing stuff it gets annoying, believe me i know people like you.

Just relax, know that you dont have to be the ADD kid in the class just to get their attention. Pop off a joke or ****y remark that you know is funny, save the annoying ramble for you Mother.
 

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slow down when you speak. when people talk fast, they tend to mumble. the only thing theyll find funny about that is how stupid it sounds.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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