"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I make $180,000 every month, do girls care?

lovespell

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Hello,

How do you determine whether girls are more interested in you or your money or fancy car that I drive.

Sometimes girls ask me how much I make, and then I tell them,
and afterwards they are more friendly towards me.

I am thinking to myself, maybe this girl is after my money or my car.

Does anyone else have this problem?

Also, some girls, do not care that I make so much, in fact,
they laugh at me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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compleks

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Some girls will care, some won't.
If I was earning that much I wouldn't be telling anyone. Least of all women I may have just met.

Some people will use you for your money (men and women).

What is it you do?
I could use a nice little pay rise...
 

Willard

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If you make that much money why don't you go to RSD boot camps and learn how to be successful with women. Then you can stop wasting the forums time and making your self look like a rich pathetic loser. You can have all the money in the world and still end up like Elliot Rodger. Why don't you get some self respect and stop trying to buy your way into being successful with women, unless you are a troll and it seems like you are.
 

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The OP is actually unemployed and is using this as an exercise to justify his poverty, by pretending that having money would actually be bad.

Jaylan, is that you? (I only took home $24,620 last month, actually, though girls did indeed care).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JohnnyStorm

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Yeah man, just go down to the pub in your football kit.
They're all bound to believe you when you say you play for Man Utd.
 

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I drive a really really nice car and girls sometimes ask me how I can afford it,

should I tell them? sometimes it seems like bragging,

and I don't want to come off as shallow.

But they genuinely seem interested in knowing how
 

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Never tell anyone how much you make. Say the banksters, trustafarians and welfare moms. The rest of us should indeed tell people how much we make, and more importantly, what skills others need to make the same.

This is not the same as inheriting money and saying "Ha ha, I have a BMW", as many lazy people want to claim (as they file for unemployment, on your tax dollar).

I program cell phone apps specializing in 3D graphics and C++. There are lots of telecommute jobs now, paying $60-$140 per hour. I took two jobs on for a while and got myself out of IRS debt. (Tip: to figure out how much you owe, take the amount you have and divide by 1). Don't go to college. Just get a computer and start tinkering on sample apps, and work on your LinkedIn profile, where most jobs find me nowadays. To get started, your resume can just list the skills and project you worked on - just find any client and say you did it for them. They don't have to have paid you, only associated with you. I did research for a hospital that way and the tools I developed opened doors, and it jump started me out of a down time. Focus on skills.

The secret to success is to love what you do, and never ever say "it's not my job".
 

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A smooth broke guy will clean up more than a AFC millionaire
 

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bigneil said:
Never tell anyone how much you make. Say the banksters, trustafarians and welfare moms. The rest of us should indeed tell people how much we make, and more importantly, what skills others need to make the same.

This is not the same as inheriting money and saying "Ha ha, I have a BMW", as many lazy people want to claim (as they file for unemployment, on your tax dollar).

I program cell phone apps specializing in 3D graphics and C++. There are lots of telecommute jobs now, paying $60-$140 per hour. I took two jobs on for a while and got myself out of IRS debt. (Tip: to figure out how much you owe, take the amount you have and divide by 1). Don't go to college. Just get a computer and start tinkering on sample apps, and work on your LinkedIn profile, where most jobs find me nowadays. To get started, your resume can just list the skills and project you worked on - just find any client and say you did it for them. They don't have to have paid you, only associated with you. I did research for a hospital that way and the tools I developed opened doors, and it jump started me out of a down time. Focus on skills.

The secret to success is to love what you do, and never ever say "it's not my job".

neil ill be contacting you shortly....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sure, anyone can PM me for details. It used to be that America made the things it consumed. Now we buy it all from China on credit. We don't have as many working examples of craftsmanship (or jobs). The rungs on the ladder to success have been removed one by one.
 

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I've done this with a chick the other week. Its only because i thought she was out of my league that I needed to tell her how much money I have. its like 'i don't think I am worthy enough, so i need to show you other ways my worth is present' That was a sad mistake for me. Totally AFC, but a good learning point.

It didnt help me. I wont do it again. Its a sad and scarce mindset.
 

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It will take me 1,500 months to earn what you earn in one month. Enjoy your life man!
 

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lovespell = sageproduct
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Espi said:
Eh, may be a shot in the dark. However, this whole charade, and the way he writes, just kind of sounds like him
 
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