I made one approach in my life

[King Don Juan]

Back in my afc days I asked out a girl infront of alot of my classmates and she said no. I was crying on my bedroom floor when I got home lol. Shes 17 now and still in grade 9 shows you how stupid she is.

I found this site over a year ago and I improved myself alot. I realised that I am really good looking, learned how to behave around women and this made my confidence and self-esteem go up. But I still havent made an approach in my dj days, even when I know the girl wants me and is giving me signs to approach I do nothing.

I'm starting to think that one rejection messed up my subconscious or something.
What should I do?

 

[matius]

It's possible that it messed you up. But you sound young. Shatter that right now! Go out and ask a girl out tonight or tomorrow...hurry, it will get easier...don't drag yourself down into the firey pits of hell. I was there for years all based on early rejections and mental heart breaks.

Start producing good relationships so you know not everyone is like her.

 

[coin]

You're 17??? You have your whole life ahead of you, and possibly COLLEGE.

There are no more fertile grounds than that.

 

[Jango_Xavier]

All I can say is "do the bootcamp"