I made my gf feel like a wh0re...

[DasaniWater]

Okay, today i talked to my gf, she was telling me about her day and she told me she was at alberstons looking to get me something for our anniversary. I was like wtf, albertsons?? She said well i dont have a lot of money. (I gave her 100 dollars last thursday, 5 minutes after we had sex, bad?) So im like i gave you money, how do u not have money? Then she tells me its not her money, (WTF?) and says its my money, and then calls me a materialistic bastard. I told her i had to go and i hung up on her.

She calls me back and i pick up, we talk and argue about it, and she tells me that shes giving me the 100 dollars back, and that i can keep the 1,000 laptop that i bought for her, and then she told me that i think of her as a wh0re thats why she gave me the 100 dollars after we had sex, and she told me that i treat her like a wh0re cus i bought her those things, and i told her i got it cus i loved her. but then i didnt say that until afterwards cus she was pissing me off and i didnt have anything to say, she began crying and saying she made me something and that she was buying something from albertons because she was going to add it some how (but i still wanted to know why seh says she has no money when i gave her the 100 dollars, what im not worth a 100 from her it pissed me off, but i didnt continue to argue about it)..

So yeah that happened. We made up but damn i cant believe she feels like a wh0re being with me. we were going to have sex this thursday, but i think when it finally happends, im going to tell her that i think we should wait until marriage... to prove to her that i truely love her. Good idea??? I know she will be like wanting to **** me but i think i need to put my foot down and just stop, because icant have her feeling this way... What should i do?? plz help.

Thank you

 

[Shiftkey]

Hmm...this is a tough one, but maybe....you can stop giving her money and buying her expensive gifts? That way you can have sex with her AND save money! Win win!

 

[Bvbidd]

Seriously? What the fvck is wrong with you?

You make the same post every other day about the same girl.

It's seriously fvcking sad, and I'm not even saying that from this message board's perspective.. even any other WBAFC or whatever would think your a loser.

If she asked for money at ANYTIME.. I would get the fvck out of there. Look, see you spent over 1100 dollars on her. And she still is saying sh!t about you.

I've been told I make girls feel like a ***** too, and you know what? It was when I thought of them as the complete oppostite of *****s did I give them that feeling.

 

[DasaniWater]

LOL, actually giving her that much money was teh first time we've been dating in 11 months... and also with the laptop, the last time i got her something was about 4 months ago and i forgot what it was... oh it was a necklace.. the most i ever spent on a gift for her was like 20 bucks and ive only gotten her 3 things before this... a whiel ago..


But yeah i want to rise and show her like im a better man, or maybe it will show that im in control i dont know ****tt... but hmm, i remember not wanting to feel her up and she took it as i didnt love her, but let me think...

Saying, baby i think we should wait until marriage, (SHES ALWAYS TOLD ME THIS AND WANTED THIS, BUT SHE NEVER COULD GO THROUGH WITH IT)...

we've made promises to wait over and over, but now its like she doesnt even fight the feeling anymore and we do it all the time..

 

[DasaniWater]

she never asked for the money.. i gave it to her cus she only had 14 bucks. and ya im a hustler just so you kno so money comes along damn easy.

 

[DasaniWater]

Ive Had The Oppertunity To **** Countless Other Women, U Have No Idea!! But I Always Refused And Rejected Because I Love Her!!!!!!!!

 

[DasaniWater]

I'm a Hustla Homie I'm a Hustla!!!!! YeaUh!!!!!!!!

 

[eminence]

what is the matter with you?

 

[Kings_royalty]

I was like wtf, albertsons?? She said well i dont have a lot of money. (I gave her 100 dollars last thursday, 5 minutes after we had sex, bad?)

You shouldn’t have criticized her about Albertson’s bro; there could be lots of reasons why she decided to buy you something from there. Maybe she took the money you gave her and used it for something she needed, like food, rent, gas, and now she didn’t have much to use for you, who knows. And here is another thought, maybe she said that just to see your reaction, maybe she was testing you to see if you 'are' materialistic. Girls are sneaky like that, watch your back. And as far as giving her the 100 dollars after sex, I wouldn't say that was the best 'time' to hand her money, lol...even though your heart was in the right place.

She calls me back and i pick up, we talk and argue about it, and she tells me that shes giving me the 100 dollars back, and that i can keep the 1,000 laptop that i bought for her, and then she told me that i think of her as a wh0re thats why she gave me the 100 dollars after we had sex, and she told me that i treat her like a wh0re cus i bought her those things,

Here comes the drama. You hurt her feelings so now she wants to make you feel like $hit. This is where you stay cool, and explain to her how you meant it. Getting pissed off and bent out of shape is what she wants, don't give her the satisfaction.

she began crying and saying she made me something and that she was buying something from albertons because she was going to add it some how (but i still wanted to know why seh says she has no money when i gave her the 100 dollars, what im not worth a 100 from her it pissed me off, but i didnt continue to argue about it)..


This may be true bro, girls get very creative when they have little money. And as much as i hate to say it, $100.00 doesn't go very far these days. You can easily spend that on one trip to the mall or grocery store.

I'm glad you took the lead by deciding not to argue about it anymore. Allot of guys would keep on until the girl ended the conversation, which is bad because that puts her in the lead.

but i think when it finally happends, im going to tell her that i think we should wait until marriage... to prove to her that i truely love her. Good idea???

No, not a good idea. There are other ways you can show a girl you care, other than stopping sex. Are you guys serious enough to be talking about marriage? I would think twice about that one. Look at the type of arguments you are having NOW, can you imagine what they will be like down the road, after the knot is tied?

Sit her down and tell her why you do all those nice things for her, let her soak it all in. If she's really into you, she'll see it from your point of view and understand.

One more thing, don't get used to showering her with gifts and money because you’ll end up spoiling her and creating a little bratt that will kick and scream when she doesn't get her way. <--- food for thought.

 

[DasaniWater]

Wow.....great advice, at first glace i thought it was all just bashing me, but when i began reading i realized it was advice, very useful. THanks a lot kings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[sexy_kuta]

she never asked for the money.. i gave it to her cus she only had 14 bucks. and ya im a hustler just so you kno so money comes along damn easy.

u a damn hulster yet u spend money on woman u still dont get shhiit

nukka please.

you're more played out than in the club by fiddy

 

[DasaniWater]

WTF? You're canadian. What are you doing listening to rap in the first place? LOL

 

[DasaniWater]

Representing The North Nukka!!! Canadians Of Ice And Trees!! Yeauh!

 

[DonJuanForever]

Okay, homie?

So you are asking if you hurt her feelings, well you created the monster now you gotta lay with him.

You started spoiling her, putting her on a pedestal, etc...DON'T STOP NOW. Keep doing it! Keep buying her shyt, keep giving her money....I mean, you're a "hustler" right?

I bet you're black aren't you, this shyt just pisses me off about my god damn culture. Everybody is Tupac and a fvckin "hustla"......:crackup:

Dude you svck, and the money you give to your girl I could have her pay for the hotel room so I can bone her.

But seriously, read this site and come back and talk to me, this is too dumb of a question.

 

[DonJuanForever]

oh and yeah, I think your "proper" definition is that of

a "trick," hustlas don't pay for pvssy as you do.

Giving chicks 1,000 dolllas here and there....yeah, I'll use yo azz too, "pimp"

 

[DasaniWater]

so, you're black?? damn, sounds like you need to calm down. i recommend getting laid.

 

[DasaniWater]

Do you even know what a hustler is? you're a moron. LOL!!!

 

[DonJuanForever]

Dasani...if you recommend getting "laid" like you do, they I think I'll SAVE MY MONEY.

Naw seriously bro..getting laid is FREE AND EASY, don't ever pay for sex, that's like paying for air.

And I'm in commissioned sales and manage my own sales team, and am very successful at it, I know allllll about hustlin. Do YOU know what it is?

There's nothing "proud" about braggin on how much money you've spent on your girl...there's nothing smooth, nor proud in that.

You are a "trick" you know what that is? It's a guy who pays for sex, pays for women to like him, pays for women's attention...a trick.

I'll fvck your girl EASILY, because she doesn't really like you, she just likes your MONEY...don't EVER bring your girl around me bra, she'll get fvcked as soon as your back turns.

You are a trick, and tricks get no love from me my friend
.

 

[DasaniWater]

LMAO! Yeah, very big hustler with a sales team? Ok so basically you're telling me that anyone who is a salesmen is a hustler? thats funny, haha! You're black, and u consider yourself a huslter because you manage a sales team for a store? Exactly what do you sell?? I was never bragging about how much i spent on her, because believe me, ive spent much more on myself and I could very easily brag about that. You dont know me. I don't need your love. please dont tell me you're black? You're wack as hell. Do you know what that means? You act so hard and tough on the keyboard chill out, i had no idea something i posted got you all worked up for nothing, get a life. LOL, my friend??

Please....... I guarantee, u get no "love" from the people who KNOW. and put it down.

 

[DasaniWater]

Why the hell are you calling me bra? Hawaiian now? Yes, its very easy to act all tough like you're the man over the keyboard, isnt it?