wcknightjr
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I`m still in high school but i need mature men help
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
are you kidding me.....? toocold's post was perfect, especially the last part when it all comes DOWN after high school to the "popular" kids.if anything youre the idiot for coming to post stupid questions....yet he gave you a good answer and you react that way.....you got to be ****ing me.
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
oh, okay...sorry 'bout that. you're right, i'm an idiot. i really need to grow up.
wasn't it you who asked how to be popular in high school in the The Mature Man forum?
my point was, if you try to be popular, it will blow up on you.
Al Gore (do you know who he is?) tried to be popular--people saw right through it. if you try to be popular, you are insecure. if you try to be popular, you end up appeasing people. you become known as the "sunshine boy"--a little svckazz that no one respects--like those nerds i spoke of. they wanted to hang with us, and they gave us $$$ for the pleasure. and if you ASK how to be popular, it's even worse.
didn't this just happen to you with your post? merely asking this question means you're a poser. How to become popular? hmmmm.....
funny thing is that people my age do this all the time, especially in my line of work. it's pathetic, cuz i'm still the popular one to this day. the more things change, the more they stay the same.
so let me answer your question. the way to become popular is to gain respect.
but what do i know...i'm an idiot.
FratAndDiddy
Senior Don Juan
Too Cold, youre getting pounded over here.
doesn't sound like your too "popular."
doesn't sound like your too "popular."
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Does ne 1 else c the irony in dis post?
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Evil-Rom, always did enjoy your posts, short and to the point.
Alph, if you're looking for advice on how to be popular, chances are, you never will be.
Popularity doesn't mean sh!t.
Alph, if you're looking for advice on how to be popular, chances are, you never will be.
Popularity doesn't mean sh!t.
I know it was not what you wanted to hear, but what he wrote is probably the best indication of "popularity". A willingness to be an idiot and do stupid stuff, that no one else would have the guts to do and thats what it often comes down to. (which is why it tends to be the people you would call jocks, as they are too thick to do any better).
And you lot saying if you have to ask how to be popullar, you never will be, are wrong, popularity is image and you can change your image.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
JSH, are you saying that by changing his image he will become popular?
I beg to differ.
I beg to differ.
Man, u should`v wrote it smth like this the first time u posted, anyways i`m sorry for calling u an idiot, anways, i got what i needed to know from this thread.
And one other thing, when i started this thread i acttualy wanted to find out how to make more friends, not how to become a poser.
P.S.(hope i explained it well, since ENGLISH is my SECOND language)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
nah, i think the only one who didn't get it was the original poster, Alph. but i think he's coming around...
If you change your image, it can make you popular, iv seen it happen, it started to happen with me and then i thought wtf, these guys are jerks and left. Popularity is a facade and is quite easily gained.
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You know how you get popular in HS?
By being a man and being yourself
That's all there is too it, popularity will slowly follow...
By being a man and being yourself
That's all there is too it, popularity will slowly follow...
Vini Vidi Vici
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Ok, I'm getting tired of this discussion and am gonna answer your question.
Read the Bible and practice it until you`re so good that there`s not a girl in this world who can resist you.
That`s how you`ll be popular, the guys will respect you, they will think you`re the coolest....
....and the girls; well, they will be making lines to let you be inside them.
Read the Bible and practice it until you`re so good that there`s not a girl in this world who can resist you.
That`s how you`ll be popular, the guys will respect you, they will think you`re the coolest....
....and the girls; well, they will be making lines to let you be inside them.