"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I`m still in high school but i need mature men help

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TooColdUlrick, ur a fukkin idiot, u act like ur still in the elementary school so do me a favor and SHUT UP!
 
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are you kidding me.....? toocold's post was perfect, especially the last part when it all comes DOWN after high school to the "popular" kids.if anything youre the idiot for coming to post stupid questions....yet he gave you a good answer and you react that way.....you got to be ****ing me.
 
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Originally posted by Alph
TooColdUlrick, ur a fukkin idiot, u act like ur still in the elementary school so do me a favor and SHUT UP!
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oh, okay...sorry 'bout that. you're right, i'm an idiot. i really need to grow up.

wasn't it you who asked how to be popular in high school in the The Mature Man forum?

my point was, if you try to be popular, it will blow up on you.

Al Gore (do you know who he is?) tried to be popular--people saw right through it. if you try to be popular, you are insecure. if you try to be popular, you end up appeasing people. you become known as the "sunshine boy"--a little svckazz that no one respects--like those nerds i spoke of. they wanted to hang with us, and they gave us $$$ for the pleasure. and if you ASK how to be popular, it's even worse.

didn't this just happen to you with your post? merely asking this question means you're a poser. How to become popular? hmmmm.....

funny thing is that people my age do this all the time, especially in my line of work. it's pathetic, cuz i'm still the popular one to this day. the more things change, the more they stay the same.

so let me answer your question. the way to become popular is to gain respect.

but what do i know...i'm an idiot.
 
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Too Cold, youre getting pounded over here.
doesn't sound like your too "popular."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Alph
TooColdUlrick, ur a fukkin idiot, u act like ur still in the elementary school so do me a favor and SHUT UP!
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Does ne 1 else c the irony in dis post?
 
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Evil-Rom, always did enjoy your posts, short and to the point.

Alph, if you're looking for advice on how to be popular, chances are, you never will be.

Popularity doesn't mean sh!t.
 
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Originally posted by Alph
TooColdUlrick, ur a fukkin idiot, u act like ur still in the elementary school so do me a favor and SHUT UP!
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I know it was not what you wanted to hear, but what he wrote is probably the best indication of "popularity". A willingness to be an idiot and do stupid stuff, that no one else would have the guts to do and thats what it often comes down to. (which is why it tends to be the people you would call jocks, as they are too thick to do any better).

And you lot saying if you have to ask how to be popullar, you never will be, are wrong, popularity is image and you can change your image.
 
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JSH, are you saying that by changing his image he will become popular?

I beg to differ.
 
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Originally posted by TooColdUlrick
oh, okay...sorry 'bout that. you're right, i'm an idiot. i really need to grow up.

wasn't it you who asked how to be popular in high school in the The Mature Man forum?

my point was, if you try to be popular, it will blow up on you.

Al Gore (do you know who he is?) tried to be popular--people saw right through it. if you try to be popular, you are insecure. if you try to be popular, you end up appeasing people. you become known as the "sunshine boy"--a little svckazz that no one respects--like those nerds i spoke of. they wanted to hang with us, and they gave us $$$ for the pleasure. and if you ASK how to be popular, it's even worse.

didn't this just happen to you with your post? merely asking this question means you're a poser. How to become popular? hmmmm.....

funny thing is that people my age do this all the time, especially in my line of work. it's pathetic, cuz i'm still the popular one to this day. the more things change, the more they stay the same.

so let me answer your question. the way to become popular is to gain respect.

but what do i know...i'm an idiot.
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Man, u should`v wrote it smth like this the first time u posted, anyways i`m sorry for calling u an idiot, anways, i got what i needed to know from this thread.

And one other thing, when i started this thread i acttualy wanted to find out how to make more friends, not how to become a poser.

P.S.(hope i explained it well, since ENGLISH is my SECOND language)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by FratAndDiddy
Too Cold, youre getting pounded over here.
doesn't sound like your too "popular."
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nah, i think the only one who didn't get it was the original poster, Alph. but i think he's coming around...:)
 
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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
JSH, are you saying that by changing his image he will become popular?

I beg to differ.
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If you change your image, it can make you popular, iv seen it happen, it started to happen with me and then i thought wtf, these guys are jerks and left. Popularity is a facade and is quite easily gained.
 
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You know how you get popular in HS?

By being a man and being yourself

That's all there is too it, popularity will slowly follow...
 
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Ok, I'm getting tired of this discussion and am gonna answer your question.
Read the Bible and practice it until you`re so good that there`s not a girl in this world who can resist you.
That`s how you`ll be popular, the guys will respect you, they will think you`re the coolest....
....and the girls; well, they will be making lines to let you be inside them.
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