The three words. I'm just wondering the experiences you guys have had by saying those words to a girl. Good and bad. From my personal experiences saying it first was a 50/50. One time it lead to a long and nice relationship and another time it lead to disaster. After that I've always let the woman say it first. Some guys swear it's the key to all the gates but I'm indifferent over that. So, gentleman, personal experiences?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"I Love You"
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