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[cordoncordon]

Something just doesn't add up with this.

You had a shy chick with an amazing body and good looking, who was interested in you, but rather than try to make her feel at ease you recoil and complain about what she wasn't doing right.

You went even further in describing how respectful she was and her high paying job...

Despite how awkward things were she tried to kiss you and you just gave her a hug?

All this coming from a guy who admits his former gf was below a 6 in the looks department.

That is exactly what I thought reading the field report. Something doesn't add up, and I dont think we are getting anywhere close to the full story. Either she isn't hot at all, or she rejected him.

 

[Duracell_Bunny]

That is exactly what I thought reading the field report. Something doesn't add up, and I dont think we are getting anywhere close to the full story. Either she isn't hot at all, or she rejected him.

WTF?? Why in the hell would someone be negatively suggestive about a girls looks, or lie about going on a date when asking for advice???

I posted as things happened really wanting to get it right and following the given advice, yet you say "not getting anywhere to the full story"???

Just cos my ex was unattractive you seem to think I lied about a girls looks? Tazman even using the word "admits" as if its something I'm supposed to be ashamed of???... she wern't no whale.

Get out of here, I'm experiencing things here I never thought possible and cannot be grateful enough for everyone who has spent more than a little amount of time analyzing and offering incredible advice. I had a taste of being happy and on top of the world, even though I fvcked up big time and have been put back in my pathetic place of being nothing more than a boring basterd that no one wants to spend time with. I'm average looking, I groom as well as I possibly can, I'm not fat, I spend a long time buying clothes and choosing what to wear, its a common thing for some stranger to comment on my choice of clothing. I have almost zero approach anxiety so clearly there is only one thing wrong.

Right I now I know what I need to focus on and I'm gonna ****ing do it, I got that date and really want to do it again and enjoy it next time.

I don't want you two bringing all this negative BS to me because you think something "doesn't add up".

 

[socialdj]

Let her go, If she likes you she will bite back. Its a game of tennis, you have swung you racket. Now its time for her to swing back. If she calls you then give her a mini compliment just to get her out of her shell again. If not, move on.