"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"I love you" came very very early...and it wasn't from me.

Mantis Toboggan

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Commandante said:
I don´t see any problem here. Until she loves you more than you love her everything is fine, ´cause you have more power in the "relationship".

Just out of curiosity, how isn't it a problem? She said she loves him after dating for less than 3 weeks. They haven't even had sex yet. Yeah, she "loves" him more than he loves her right now....but considering that they barely know each other yet, they don't love each other anyway.

I don't want to take my experiences and use them to judge all people, but this has "crazy" written all over it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This girl is stuck in high school, which may be where you guys are I'm not sure. I am currently in high school and I hear this ALL the time. I have yet to find a level headed girl and it drives me insane and sets my standards high. It actually happened to me as well and I know first hand it starts a whole lot of drama, and that was the way I found this site. So my opinion is that I would take this as a bad sign and if you keep it going expect her to actually say it to you within the month. And if your girl is like one of the many, expect her to fall out of love about just as fast as she went in. Good luck man.
 

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Let the games begin!

Grab your seat and keep us posted of any escalation on her part.
 

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Blue Phoenix said:
Let the games begin!

Grab your seat and keep us posted of any escalation on her part.
so far she hasn't let "I love you" slip out any more.

The first time we fvcked she said "I think your in trouble, your incredible, and I'm addicted to your c0ck."

I Banged her again yesterday, requiring not too much effort on my part aside from typical stuff like biting neck while making out....teasing her erogenous zones, and so on.

She gives amazing head and actually swallows out of choice. Proclaiming to love the taste of ***. rofl. Works for me, regardless of how many wangs shes been on.

She's definitely experienced, which in my book is a plus. I'm used to girls that don't like being on top, and just stick to the plain old missionary.

She knows what she wants in sex and can move her hips like a champ, thank you previous men who have trained her talents. :crackup:

I can see that she is more attached to me now. I don't mind, I dated a psycho clinger for 2 years. She told me if she is being to clingy or whatever to just let her know, space is something she understands and needs herself sometimes as well.


I have nothing to complain about, but as you all have said. I love you is going to become a regular thing from this girls mouth within a month or two.


Edit: she also said after the second time we fvcked "I hope you like sex....a lot. I want it all the time." In which I responded "You think you can keep up with me?....we'll see." She was ready for round two after that short convo. I was done for. hahaha
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's all well and good, but this woman is either:

a) A Low Self-Esteem, High Sex Drive, submissive type. Which will cause problems for you down the road (not now, since you'll be experiencing the emotional HIGH of her lust). If she is this type - in about 4-5 months - the real her will emerge once she gets bored.

or

b) One hell of a manipulative b!tch! Women who manipulate, will often hook the man in via almost exactly everything she's doing to you.

"I hope you like sex... a lot. I want it all the time" - is her prizing herself out. This girls very easy going? Very much into doing whatever?


Anyway, just some things to look out for. Don't worry too much about it... But keep it in the back of your mind...
 
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