"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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joekerr31 said:
then surprise surprise, i see the tattoo, and my interest level has bottomed out. why? because its a clear sign that who i think she is, is not who she actually is. doesn't mean shes a bad person or anything, just that she's not what i thought she was.

Hey Joekerr, listen up. I have recently found "The One" for me and I am here to tell you that, we are all in search of our "One". Every damn person on this forum is in search of the same thing. Some of the guys just especially in the lower age group forum are just too damn stubborn to admit it. Think about it, they manage to bag a hot 10 girl, somehow, someway. Would any guy not want to prade that girl in front of them forever?

Anyways back to what i was saying. When the right girl for you comes around, I am telling you without a shadow of a doubt that you will know she is the one because you will size her up just like you have done to this girl. Does she have a tat?, does she smoke?, does she dress weird?All that will come into play but, here is the kicker, you for some unknown reason will not care about those little things that use to drive you insane in the past.

I am speaking from truth because i know my one and she is a smoker with a tatoo and those have always been deal breakers for me in the past. Not this time. I cannot seem to get away from her. I have walked away and somehow some way we continue to cross paths time and time again.

My advice is to continue to have your things that set you off be always in your conscious mind but, be especially on the lookout for when those things all of sudden don't bother you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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