I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes suurrrrr! If your girlfriend says she's taking a trip to vegas with her girlfriends you should probobly just break up her then as oppossed to finding the inevitable evidence that slips out! You should see some of the messes I've had to clean up for clients! You can't make that sh!t up!STR8UP said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Summers' coming up. Get a job lifeguarding at a casino. Try the Paris/Ballys or the Mandalay Luxor properties. They usually have an easy to handle managment team and a very attractive teen to early college staff. Ofcourse there's the benifits of the hottie tourist who flock to the pool for the sun too.NeedsAGuitar said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I've worked every weekend since I got out of college. Some times doubles, sometimes 12 hours, but i always work. It's kind of a side effect of working for the hospitality and entertaiment industry.Munson said:
I work for a major Civil Engineering firm in the Traffic Department. I had plans of becoming a bartender of some sort on the weekends. I was a bartender and server all through out college. Soon as I get my Profesional Engineering License and pay off my student loans I'm gonna do something else. It's kind of hard to know what you wanna do with your life at 18. Working in a office = BORING.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You work for the City, that's cool. Where did you bartend? Which school did you go to?Munson said:
It's typical for doormen in well established club scenes, yes. You'd be suprised how easy it is for a door man to say "Okay, so you and your 5 dudes, that's 300 dollars a piece" when you're talking about Some porn stars pajama party.Celadus said:
Pool parties are sick these days huh?! Typically the pools are easy to get into if you can find a used room key. Those are usually lying all over the properties. If they want to swipe it and the names don't match say you're in a big group and you didn't book the room. Otherwise grabing a guest (preferably a group of hot girls) and asking them to walk you in is a fool proof plan.Munson said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.