"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheMonkeyKing

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PS.

If PUA forums are such vacuous places to be, why don't you just f*ck off?

Conversation is obviously far to low-brow for the likes of such enlightened individuals =)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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He definitely screwed up when he talked about murdering her family. Up until then, he had the high ground. That one little sentence gives her full reign to make herself out to be the victim, and describe him as a creepy, stalkerish, sick little piece of filth who threatened her and the people she loved. She could probably get a restraining order or more to make him look even worse.
 

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TheMonkeyKing said:
PS.

If PUA forums are such vacuous places to be, why don't you just f*ck off?

Conversation is obviously far to low-brow for the likes of such enlightened individuals =)
Oh for crying out loud. Grow up.
 

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Mauser96 said:
I had a good laugh about this.

I think you can extract some valuable lessons from this, whether you think it was a waste of his time or not.

1. Note, how she feels him out on her cheating, to see if there is still a chance.
2.Note how she butters him up as the sweetest and cutest guy on the planet.....see the lies she is capable of? The manipulation? If he was so sweet and cute, why cheat on him. Open your eyes men Look at actions, not words.
3.It was just ONE guy.....SO, he is supposed to be grateful she didn't do the entire football team, and the visiting team, and take her back.
4.she says you have never been this douchey before..............right after she said he was the cutest and sweetest guy on the planet. (as soon as she saw sweet-talk wasn't working, it was onto shaming language to see if that would work)
5.When the shaming language doesn't work? It is back to sweet talk. "we are meant to be together"
6.Note finally, how when none of this works, and she realizes he hates her for what she has done, she tries the old "can we be friends"


So let's put this in perspective
I fvcked around on you, had sex with another man, knowing it would crush you, but not really caring , because it was what I wanted to do at the time. I am ruled by my emotions. I figured for sure, you wouldn't find out, but now that you have, i will sweet talk you, shame you into thinking this is your fault, try and make you feel guilty for making it public, and finally, when none of that works.......ask if we can still be friends so I can show my friends it was no big deal, and not feel like such a useless slvt. Maybe even get back with you down the road.??

I liked it, all in all. Except for the murder your family thing. Not good.



Anyways, the VALUE in it, is to see the manipulation tactics she tried on him - that is what women default to. Nice, then mean, shaming, then nice again, then can we at least be friends.

Take heed.
Good angle on this. I hadn't thought of it in this light.
 
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