"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Say something that makes her think of sex or something sexual, you turn it on them and make it look like they are the person with the dirty mind instead of you.
Example;
I saw a girl that I knew with a sucker in her mouth.
"Your really enjoying that sucker arent you. When your done with that I got something else you can suck on" I said with the sly look that says Im talking about giving me a *******. She gave me that same old "I cant believe you just said that" look.
Me"How could you think I ment that, you must have a really dirty mind then"
She was cracking up as hard as Ive ever seen her, plus this gives you a **** load of ammuniton to work with cuz you can constantly bust on her about having a dirty mind. Its awsome how well this works, you just have to spot the times when you can use it. Bottom line tho is to make it look like shes the horny one with sex on the brain.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah thats a good technique. But you know what? Sometimes, you just tell her that you have something else to suck on. And you DO mean it that way. lol!
 

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Excellent! :crackup:
 

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Your really enjoying that sucker arent you.

This is usually enough to get your point across because the underlying message is still there. In my experience, what you DON'T say usually works better than what you do say.

The 2nd part of the comment could come across as being creepy and or corny if the girl isn't in the mood for it.
 
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Well the 2nd part like you said could ya taken the wrong way but shes one of those girls thats always joking around so it worked.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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