Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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list of afc qualities i see on sosuave (that i deff dont like, cuz it brings down the quality of the forum) -

1)getting mad at real life pimps who post results of what worked and how it worked - u only get mad at it IF UR JEALOUS

2)constantly stating what will work without actually ever trying it (aka dont go up to a girl and compliment her, thats baaaaaaaaaad.......just go up to her with a hidden agenda and make urself look like a loser) - Krassus i kno ud love that one

3)thinking its bad to **** alot of girls

4)thinking its bad to game girls/play girls/play with their minds (cuz we should all be AFC and be niiiiice)

5)hijacking every thread with advice and saying all the same afc shyt (ur fake, i dont believe u, u have multiple accounts)

6)posting retarded questions such as "i see a hot girl, whats the best way to approach her??" - read MY threads or Krassus's threads, ur answers lie there

7)tryin to talk down to a real life player only cuz u feel SAFE on an anonymous discussion board, and in the process looking cool in front of ur AFC losers who do the same (example: 1st loser says ohh ur fake, ur a douchebag.......2nd loser says rite on bro, 100% with u on that)......enjoy ur internet friendships, and the pimps will enjoy their pvssy!

its very easy for me to see whos good with girls and who isnt, as those who r good with girls relate to me very well and kno where im coming from, meanwhile those who r bad with girls absolutely have NO IDEA what im talkin about and only wanna discredit me by saying im fake, simply cuz it makes them feel better bout their own girl-problem filled situation

i feel sorry for some of u, but i also love u cuz u make me laugh
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree, but dude, all these threads you're making about how to tell who's DJ or AFC, and like this one.... they don't help. You're just creating two seperate factions. That's not good for a community like this. The experienced are supposed to help the less experienced. I know it doesn't really work that way quite as well as it should recently, but still. We don't need to be split up and pitted against each other. That's a big part of why these boards are going to hell. Everyone is so busy calling everyone else out for being "AFC" or "KBJ" or whatever. It doesn't help. And lots of the self-appointed DJ's around here have such an elitist attitude, it just makes it worse.

My 3 cents, because 2 ain't enough nowadays.
 

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8) Seeking validation from an internet forum.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
I agree, but dude, all these threads you're making about how to tell who's DJ or AFC, and like this one.... they don't help. You're just creating two seperate factions. That's not good for a community like this. The experienced are supposed to help the less experienced. I know it doesn't really work that way quite as well as it should recently, but still. We don't need to be split up and pitted against each other. That's a big part of why these boards are going to hell. Everyone is so busy calling everyone else out for being "AFC" or "KBJ" or whatever. It doesn't help. And lots of the self-appointed DJ's around here have such an elitist attitude, it just makes it worse.

My 3 cents, because 2 ain't enough nowadays.
good point, being split is NOT good........but seriously, forget about the threads i make about whos dj and whos afc, that was like 1 thread....all my quality advice giving threads get hijacked by afcs who dont get laid who call me fake for being a player...really cool
 

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The Truth said:
8) Seeking validation from an internet forum.

yea ur rite

hey i brag to my friends bout everythin i do all the time, they brag to me and its all good.

im here to give advice and show people that certain things i read on sosuave DO work, im basically giving back to the website that made me see a few things about girls that i didnt kno about (like push/pull and gunwitch)

btw The Truth - i saw a pic of u and ur gf.......GOOD JOB with that one, its no wonder ur against all my advice on being a player, looks like u got a good girl there and u deff dont need 2 b a player
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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skip2mylou781 said:
all my quality advice giving threads get hijacked by afcs who dont get laid who call me fake for being a player...really cool
I understand, but with the state these boards are in, that really can't be avoided. We just have to live with it for now.

The way I see it, those that deserve to improve their life and become DJ's or whatever they want to be, will. They should be smart enough to realize who posts real advice and who is talking out their a$$. They need to develop the skill to shift thru a thread and pick out the quality information, while leaving all the crap alone, or just laughing at it. I've got this skill down, and I usually prefer to laugh at the crap. ^_^
 

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Originally posted by Skip2mylou781
im here to give advice
umm...what exactly is this post all about?
 

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I suggest this gets locked. Ace of Flames covered everything that needs to be said, not much point starting a flame war afterwards.
 

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If we did not have AFC's this forum would die. If we had nothing but real life players and pimps they would also fight.

Let's get real! A forum full of young men is bound to blow up in competition. We cannot help it because it is our nature.

You seem to be fighting the same fight over and over again. Do yourself a favor and ignore the people that doubt you, put them on ignore, post in peace, and never expect a testosterone driven forum to esteem you.
 

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im just pointing out that afcs who dunno shyt about girls shouldnt b insulting on someone whos giving them advice to HELP them succeed.....its really counterproductive
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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im just pointing out that afcs who dunno shyt about girls shouldnt b insulting on someone whos giving them advice to HELP them succeed.....its really counterproductive
tru DAT homie G-Dawg IN THA HOUSE! holla holla
 

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Once again thank you skip, for judging/insulting everyone and proving that you are above everyone else.
 

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i only judged/insulted those that waste space on sosuave with their horrible afc tendencies
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
i only judged/insulted those that waste space on sosuave with their horrible afc tendencies
They gotta start somewhere skip. Leave them be. They'll (hopefully) get it eventually.
 

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oh i kno they gotta start somewhere....the problem is, they start by hating on advice from someone only tryin to help
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everyone with any real skills realizes most of the stuff here is bS,takes what good and tries it and shows some improvemet.

Decides to log off and then comes back one day after a few months straight of ****ing random chics and comes to the realization that most of the site is BS.

And it is.

Just take it for what it's worth and log on and post every few months like all veteran posters do.Cuz the bs and the geekiness of this site would depress anyone.
 

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That's their choice. Nothing you can do at that point. Just let them screw themselves over.

"You can't change someone unless they're willing to change themselves." - Me
 

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The Truth said:
8) Seeking validation from an internet forum.

Thats exactly what i was thinking.....So insucure :nono:

and im certainly not jealous of you....

I too feel sorry for AFCs thow.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
i only judged/insulted those that waste space on sosuave with their horrible afc tendencies

Once again whats this post about? Anything DJ? No....
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
list of afc qualities i see on sosuave (that i deff dont like, cuz it brings down the quality of the forum) -

1)getting mad at real life pimps who post results of what worked and how it worked - u only get mad at it IF UR JEALOUS

2)constantly stating what will work without actually ever trying it (aka dont go up to a girl and compliment her, thats baaaaaaaaaad.......just go up to her with a hidden agenda and make urself look like a loser) - Krassus i kno ud love that one

3)thinking its bad to **** alot of girls

4)thinking its bad to game girls/play girls/play with their minds (cuz we should all be AFC and be niiiiice)

5)hijacking every thread with advice and saying all the same afc shyt (ur fake, i dont believe u, u have multiple accounts)

6)posting retarded questions such as "i see a hot girl, whats the best way to approach her??" - read MY threads or Krassus's threads, ur answers lie there

7)tryin to talk down to a real life player only cuz u feel SAFE on an anonymous discussion board, and in the process looking cool in front of ur AFC losers who do the same (example: 1st loser says ohh ur fake, ur a douchebag.......2nd loser says rite on bro, 100% with u on that)......enjoy ur internet friendships, and the pimps will enjoy their pvssy!

its very easy for me to see whos good with girls and who isnt, as those who r good with girls relate to me very well and kno where im coming from, meanwhile those who r bad with girls absolutely have NO IDEA what im talkin about and only wanna discredit me by saying im fake, simply cuz it makes them feel better bout their own girl-problem filled situation

i feel sorry for some of u, but i also love u cuz u make me laugh
I don't think the problem is as bad as you try to make it sound. From what I've seen 1) and 7) apply almost exclusively to threads I've seen started by you. But then again you have an overwhelming amount of threads so that part pretty much explains itself. Some people even embraced AngelusPUA's posts, and he turned out to be a fake. The difference is that he didn't run to the board and say "HEY GUYS DO THIS OR YOU WON'T GET CHICKS" or "HEY GUYS I JUST DID THIS AND IT WORKED SO IT WILL WORK FOR YOU TOO!!!" So I don't think people are that bad with the flaming. Those who ask for it shall receive. You also lose a lot of credibility when you get too self-righteous. The way you think you're conveying your posts doesn't look the same to the people reading them. That's about as honest as anyone's gonna be with you.

2) That is what we call a KBJ. You're always going to have them, and they're not going to go away anytime soon, because they're all pimps in their own minds. But anyone with half a mind can figure out who they are. People like Luke Skywalker are too obvious.

3) There is a such thing as too many girls. Obviously your motives are not what they should be if you are just looking to bang chicks 24/7. Especially if it gets in the way of you accomplishing things a little more important. There's no DJ law against banging chicks in moderation. If you are banging so many chicks then chances are you're not even finding the right ones.

4) Find somebody who's legitimately read the DJ Bible, been actively reading on this site for more than 6 months, and still believes this. If they didn't learn to agree with the information then they probably wouldn't waste their time reading it.

5) Well seeing as a big time poster just admitted to being fake and on like 10 separate accounts, you really can't take authenticity for granted anymore.

6) This is what we call a newbie. Seeing as they probably don't need to know how to pick up 18 year old chicks from MySpace, I think it would be best for them to read the DJ Bible and any of the archived articles on sosuave.com. Saying "do a search" or "read the bible" takes about 10 seconds to do and probably isn't worth the bítching.

8) You do spend too much time trying to do this. If somebody wants to read what you have to say, fine. If they don't want to read what you have to say, fine. If they want to believe you or not, also fine. But don't try to shove it down their throats and argue with them. Arguing will also plummet your credibility. As a young adult you should know the worst way to get somebody our age to do something is to try to force them to do it. As for the people who say you're legit or not, if they want to believe that why should it matter to you? If what you're doing works for you it doesn't mean it will always work for somebody else. Everybody's got their own thing; we're all individuals, and becoming an army of Skip's soldiers may actually not be what's best for all of us.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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