"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lol you said you have her but you dont. You now know she will fvck another dude with a quickness if you p1ss her off the slightest. Now she has you cause you know this and therefore will be her puppy just like shes use too. These b1tches operate in the sickest ways. Yea you set up a challange in some manner to them and they want to win so once they conquer and they will she will go back to normal very soon and you will be her b1tch.
These girls could be in LTR's but its not if they will cheat it is when.
They act normal and fun, sexual what have you in the beginning and youre like holy sh1t this girl is great then they hook your azz then the sh1t starts to hit the fan.
Dude the BPD im with in the beginning was cool and I kinda of knew she was crazy so i was sexually standoffish but we did hang out all the time and it was pretty fun. I didnt fvck her for a little which drove her crazy but I eventually did. I would fvck her regularly and slept over her house almost every night even though we werent bf gf. Well one night im sleeping in her bed and i wake up and shes gone. I wait there and she gets back and Im like wtf. Well come to find out she went down the street to fvck a former friend. I was like wtf would you do that? She was like well you didnt wanna have sex last night and I did so i did. I was like uhhh ok.
Seriously I got way more ridiculous sh1t i can tell you.
You gotta have the thickest skin to deal with them as I have developed pretty thick skin because of her sh1t.
All my friends guys and girls all know she is fvcked up and know I shouldnt be with her. And some just know her for 5 min and say that.
Bottom line her sh1t will never end. It will calm down here and there but dude brace yourself for some fvcked up sh1t.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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acehole said:
Well one night im sleeping in her bed and i wake up and shes gone. I wait there and she gets back and Im like wtf. Well come to find out she went down the street to fvck a former friend. I was like wtf would you do that? She was like well you didnt wanna have sex last night and I did so i did. I was like uhhh ok.

Why didn't you dump her after this? You are still with her?

If there is any sort of cheating, she will be a footnote in my History book. She knows this.

I can deal with her mind games. But if I find out she touches another man, ADIOS. I have made this clear to her and she usually checks in with me every night without me asking. It's like she wants to prove to me she is not cheating.

You have to train them to behave. If you let your girl get away with that shady behavior you just posted, it's a lost cause.
 
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Why would anyone want to go out with someone who is mentally retarded? It's beyond me. :rolleyes:
 

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Leisure Suit Larry said:
You have to train them to behave. If you let your girl get away with that shady behavior you just posted, it's a lost cause.
Again, Larry's right on the money! :up:

The training is the key. An untrained BPD chick is nothing but trouble.

No train - Lotsa pain.

Cheers!
 
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romangod said:
Again, Larry's right on the money! :up:

The training is the key. An untrained BPD chick is nothing but trouble.

No train - Lotsa pain.

Cheers!

She has been behaving good for awhile now, so I am going to reward her and take her out somewhere nice this weekend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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