I love a BPD

[Leisure Suit Larry]

I love a BPD and I am happy. We have known each other for 6 months and it's fun because I know how to deal with her. I have read about the sickness here on sosuave, and I can handle her. BPD's are not that bad if you know what you are dealing with! She knows if she cheats, and I find out she will lose me and I am keeping her in line! I have demonstrated high value and she is scared to lose me.

The point is, if you know how to handle them, BPD's can be cool. I didn't even buy her a b-day present and I haven't taken her out in a couple months. I tell her I love her all the time but I don't act AFC in other ways.

She knows I can get other women with a phone call if I feel the need. This is important when dealing with these creatures.

 

[AAAgent]

good luck son. once she owns you, come back here and write about it.

 

[Cinamon]

You didn't but her a birthday present and haven't taken her outbin two months.... Cheapskate

 

[Jean Valjean]

I love a BPD and I am happy. We have known each other for 6 months and it's fun because I know how to deal with her. I have read about the sickness here on sosuave, and I can handle her. BPD's are not that bad if you know what you are dealing with! She knows if she cheats, and I find out she will lose me and I am keeping her in line! I have demonstrated high value and she is scared to lose me.

The point is, if you know how to handle them, BPD's can be cool. I didn't even buy her a b-day present and I haven't taken her out in a couple months. I tell her I love her all the time but I don't act AFC in other ways.

She knows I can get other women with a phone call if I feel the need. This is important when dealing with these creatures.

just don't fall for her or you will be done for. Why tempt yourself with a siren that will wreck your life if you ever allow yourself to have feelings for her. Unless you have a psycho mind and feel nothing all the time, this is very hard to acheive for us normal folk with feelings and consciences.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She knows if she cheats, and I find out she will lose me


So you won't find out. These girls are smart. And one of the symptoms of the disorder is the ability to detach themselves emotionally from a boyfriend or spouse simply because they are not around at that moment. The bpd girl I know and love would have probably had another man's kid from an affair while married, except she happened to have been knocked up already at the time by a week or two, unbeknown to her. The kid does belong to her ex-husband - looks just like him - but it was very close to not working out that way. By the way, he still does not know any of this.

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

She knows if she cheats, and I find out she will lose me


So you won't find out. These girls are smart. And one of the symptoms of the disorder is the ability to detach themselves emotionally from a boyfriend or spouse simply because they are not around at that moment. The bpd girl I know and love would have probably had another man's kid from an affair while married, except she happened to have been knocked up already at the time by a week or two, unbeknown to her. The kid does belong to her ex-husband - looks just like him - but it was very close to not working out that way. By the way, he still does not know any of this.

I am incredibly suspicious of her. She keeps telling me she "doesnt believe" I love her. She keeps asking for a ring. It's messed up.

This is why, even though we are supposedly "exclusive", I am trying to find something on the side.

I am willing to cheat on her, so I am sure she is willing to do it to me.

You didn't but her a birthday present and haven't taken her outbin two months.... Cheapskate

She called me cheap. I told her I learned it from her.

She has spent 6 dollars on me since I met her 6 months a go. I got tired of going out all the time and paying. She never really offered to pay for anything.

She tries to tell me she is broke, yet she buys herself 100 dollar shoes.

 

[acehole]

Well you will get eaten up alive. Ive dealt with 4 Bpd's. One is currently a gf of mine for 3 years on and off and we live together so I konw what Im talking about. You dont know sh1t about them because look how you are talking about her on this. They make you think you got them just how you are talking. YOu will never know if she cheats unless you see it. Dude she will kick you to the curb in two seconds. Yea get mad at her whenever and leave, shell just pull an orbiter out of her solar system fvck him put him back and act like nothing happened when you say sorry to her or vice or versa. I look forward to your post when she fvcks you over in the near future.

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

Well you will get eaten up alive. Ive dealt with 4 Bpd's. One is currently a gf of mine for 3 years on and off and we live together so I konw what Im talking about. You dont know sh1t about them because look how you are talking about her on this. They make you think you got them just how you are talking. YOu will never know if she cheats unless you see it. Dude she will kick you to the curb in two seconds. Yea get mad at her whenever and leave, shell just pull an orbiter out of her solar system fvck him put him back and act like nothing happened when you say sorry to her or vice or versa. I look forward to your post when she fvcks you over in the near future.

The BPD is trying to move into my place, telling me some sob story about losing her place. I put a stop to that real quick. I don't know if her sob story is true, but she is mad now because she can't squeeze out of me everything she wants. I am considering just ending it, but my damn mind changes about it 5 times a day.

I don't think I can ever be serious with her. When I first started dating her 6 months ago she was spinning plates. Let's just say she was sleeping with more men than just me and lying about it. We were not exclusive when she was doing this. We broke up a few months ago, and I find out she was banging some other guy.

Then last week, I find out she dated an old friend of mine right before she met me. I can't get over her slutty, shady behavior so I should just tell her that and end it right?

She wants to start a family and I am kind of leading her on because I don't think I can ever get past her sluttiness. She spreads her legs at the drop of a dime. She also banged some sleezeball I used to work with when she got drunk at a party 2 years ago.

I figure she will stray now since I won't give her what she wants (my house), and then it will be over for good. She will look for some other chump who will hand his keys over to her.
She likes dudes she can control (AFC's). She can't control me because I know the game.

I'm trying not to hate on her for things we did before we were exclusive but it's hard.

 

[Bible_Belt]

She wants to start a family


Yep. Mine has three kids by two different men. BPD girls create the family bond so that they can break it later. You will be the one who ends up raising the kid, not her.

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

She wants to start a family


Yep. Mine has three kids by two different men. BPD girls create the family bond so that they can break it later. You will be the one who ends up raising the kid, not her.

What do you think about her slutty past? She also put out for me on the first date.

I am trying to forget her past and see what she does since we get exclusive (it's only been 2 months) but it's hard. It bothers me.

She also told me she has done a threesome with 2 guys and she used to be a player.

At least she is honest about it. Most girls would just hide their past and you would never know.

 

[Masked_angel]

What is BPD?

 

[Jean Valjean]

What is BPD?

boy you better hope you never run into one

borderline personality disorder

they are sirens who wreck your life turn you into an AFC and break your heart over and over again

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

boy you better hope you never run into one

borderline personality disorder

they are sirens who wreck your life turn you into an AFC and break your heart over and over again

Not necessarily if you know how to deal with them from the beginning. There have been ups and downs but like Bible Belt said: if you understand the disorder and deal with her properly, you can be with them happily.

We are pretty good friends right now and the lovers part is a plus. I'm ready for her to cheat on me, I'm expecting it but playing it well. It won't destroy me if she does... I also think she wants to get knocked up so I am being careful about that.

 

[romangod]

Not necessarily if you know how to deal with them from the beginning. There have been ups and downs but like Bible Belt said: if you understand the disorder and deal with her properly, you can be with them happily.

We are pretty good friends right now and the lovers part is a plus. I'm ready for her to cheat on me, I'm expecting it but playing it well. It won't destroy me if she does... I also think she wants to get knocked up so I am being careful about that.

Wow! Larry! You're the new king of BPD women. :yes: You make the old king (Vlad the Impaler) look like an amateur.

You're playing her like a fiddle. She obviously has no idea who she's dealing with. You read her like a book. My respects.


Cheers!

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

Wow! Larry! You're the new king of BPD women. :yes: You make the old king (Vlad the Impaler) look like an amateur.

You're playing her like a fiddle. She obviously has no idea who she's dealing with. You read her like a book. My respects.


Cheers!

At least this is different from the "wahhh wahhhh the BPD destroyed me" threads.

Be a man and don't take any sh!t from them. I can walk away right now if she misbehaves. She wants to keep me, so I have the control.

 

[Bible_Belt]

What do you think about her slutty past? She also put out for me on the first date.

I am trying to forget her past and see what she does since we get exclusive (it's only been 2 months) but it's hard. It bothers me.

She also told me she has done a threesome with 2 guys and she used to be a player.

At least she is honest about it. Most girls would just hide their past and you would never know.

I can probably one-up you for the slutty past thing. I am guessing my bpd girl has been with over a hundred guys and probably at least a dozen girls. She still drops hints to me about anal sex and threesomes with her girlfriends, but I get all that from another girl, so I am not swayed. The other girl does know that my bpd ex still hits on me, which keeps her on her best behavior. I used to fvck both of them on the same night all the time, and they both know it.

The personality disorder involves seeing the world in 100% extremes of good and bad. The reason bpd girls are so fun is that when you are on their good side, you are the best guy in the world and they will do anything to make you happy. The problem comes when you fall out of their good graces and become 100% evil, the worst guy in the world, which can happen in an instant. Then she will do anything to hurt you.

 

[romangod]

At least this is different from the "wahhh wahhhh the BPD destroyed me" threads.

Be a man and don't take any sh!t from them. I can walk away right now if she misbehaves. She wants to keep me, so I have the control.

Right on, Larry!


You should be giving seminars or personal training on BPD women. You've mastered them like a true artist and many here could use your expertise.

How did you get so smart?


Cheers!

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

I can probably one-up you for the slutty past thing. I am guessing my bpd girl has been with over a hundred guys and probably at least a dozen girls. She still drops hints to me about anal sex and threesomes with her girlfriends, but I get all that from another girl, so I am not swayed. The other girl does know that my bpd ex still hits on me, which keeps her on her best behavior. I used to fvck both of them on the same night all the time, and they both know it.

The personality disorder involves seeing the world in 100% extremes of good and bad. The reason bpd girls are so fun is that when you are on their good side, you are the best guy in the world and they will do anything to make you happy. The problem comes when you fall out of their good graces and become 100% evil, the worst guy in the world, which can happen in an instant. Then she will do anything to hurt you.

Mine has been married twice and engaged once.

She wants me to be marriage # 3!

I am on her good side right now, that's why I am loving it! I only got on her bad side once, and it did suck.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I only got on her bad side once, and it did suck.


yep. She will hone in on whatever is the easiest way to get under your skin when she is mad. She will tell you that you stink in bed and she was faking it the entire time. Let's see...other bpd wrath favorites include telling you that all her friends know that she does not really like you, she just pretends to because you buy her things. My girl could never quite pull the 'faking it' line off, but her next best favorite was telling me that all of her exes were amazing in bed and ranting about how great the sex was. I found out years later that she was making all of that up, because it is the story that she thought would bother me the most.

 

[Leisure Suit Larry]

I only got on her bad side once, and it did suck.


yep. She will hone in on whatever is the easiest way to get under your skin when she is mad. She will tell you that you stink in bed and she was faking it the entire time. Let's see...other bpd wrath favorites include telling you that all her friends know that she does not really like you, she just pretends to because you buy her things. My girl could never quite pull the 'faking it' line off, but her next best favorite was telling me that all of her exes were amazing in bed and ranting about how great the sex was. I found out years later that she was making all of that up, because it is the story that she thought would bother me the most.

She has never said any of those things, but when I screwed up she ran off with some other guy while stringing me along like a chump.

Then when things blew up with that guy, she came back to me.

That's when I decided to do the exclusive thing and so far she is behaving as far as I know.

If she found out I was messing with another woman, I bet she would say those things. I think she has been faithful so far.