"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I lost my girl to a pro athlete

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Von said:
Sounds you crashed and became a beta, so she started looking at the better deal... I have a perspective/theory... if a girl who is in love with you (dating/bounding with you) and she feel that her guy find another guy ''higher'' than him... she will start seeing the same.. hence the better deal.

If her guy feels ''beta'' compared to this other dude... than she will reflect like a miror.

Money/status etc... have nothing to do with getting laid... they are just ''results' but these 'results' come from fundamental values and attributes that everyone look for...

Heck, if guys here say ''you need money, you need status... to get laid''.... Imagine how the girl react!

So the Tennis Player, when you started giving him importance and started feeling insecure... you literally threw her in his arms... cause you validated her feelings.

If she had been emotionally happy and you kept your frame... you would have never had that situation nor this thread.

Take it has a learning experience: Make her emotionnally happy, always keep your frame.... actually frame is the most important part because emotions fluctuate and there is up and down... that's why I believe frame is there to reassert the emotions of the girl, reassure her of the ''better deal'' and the leading qualities of her man. That's why guys can't allow to have their frame down...Anyway... its a sum of it all... it takes work
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Lol...You need money and status to get laid by women that **** high status guys. Yeah you may get lucky here and there but high status women want relationships with high status men.

And her being happy with the situation has nothing to do with it. I guarantee if you were in a happy relationship and a Victoria secret model threw herself at you...you would jump ship too. People are only as loyal as there options. 99% of women will cheat on their man if a pro athlete or celebrity comes along no matter how happy they are. Why wouldn’t they? If an nfl player wants your woman he’s taking her...fortunately not most guys won’t have to deal with this since most women aren’t getting hit on by celebrities or pro athletes....the op just got unlucky
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DreamAgain said:
Haha I mean, this guy isn't Nadal or Federer obviously...but he's made a couple mil I think.
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She is just using this low level athlete, she is hoping he introduces her to Nadal or Federer so she can leave him and branchswing to one of those two top guys Lol
 
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