"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I lost 10 pounds in 7 days! That is phenomenal...

Boricua_33015

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and very ABNORMAL.

I started the CKD diet last Monday weighing 230 lbs. By sunday (yesterday) I was weighing 220.

I didn't do a carb load up because I am planning to stay in ketosis for as long as I can.

Isn't losing this much weight abnormal?

I eat less than 15 grams of carbs a day, and eat only protein and fat.

Here is my workout schedule.

Monday - Run for 20 minutes in the morning. Walk 3 miles home from school.

Tuesday - Upper Body Weight training. walk 3 miles home from school.

Wednesday - Run for 20 minutes. Walk 3 miles.

Thursday - Lower Body Weight Training. Walk 3 miles.

Friday - Run for 20 minutes. Walk 3 miles.

Saturday - Upper body weight training.

Sunday - Run for 20 minutes.

I have started doing this last monday. I know it seems like a sh1tload of excercise but Im pushing myself to do it and I am never fatigued or anything.

My question is, despite the fact that I do so much cardio, is it abnormal to lose 10 lbs in 7 days?

Is my plan too good to be true?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Raven125

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I do that except without walking home from school and running almost every day... the wieght loss is phenomenal but i dont think the plan is too good to be true.
 

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Maybe a lot of your 230 pounds was water weight?
 

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There are alot of factors that add to fluctuation in weight. Like me personally, I fluctuate about 5lbs per day roughly (up or down). Depends on time of weighing ( did you weigh yourself at different times of the day), bloating or water retention ( are you on a reduced sodium diet or not?), if you have more food in you at that time than when last weighed. I'm just trying to tell you not to trust the scale TOO much it can be deceiving.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just wanted to say way to go! Keep going, don't give up and you'll look like a Mens Health cover boy in a couple of years! ;)
Whenever you hit a plateau, hit the boards hard and figure what's wrong fast, so that you don't get discouraged.

P.S. And i may as well echoe what others have said: most of that was water weight. Average weekly fat loss for someone of your size should be around 3.5 lbs. When you're near your target, it'll slow down to 1.5, if that.
 

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When I first started a low carb diet, I lost 8.5 lbs. in the first week.

And yes, alot of that is water weight because carbs tend to make people retain water.

However, for the next several months, I lost an average of 1.7 lbs. per week, going from 245 to 180 from March 11th 2002 - November 30th 2002
 

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hey Derek were you doing cardio when you did the diet or did u just do the diet alone?
 

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Originally posted by Boricua_33015
hey Derek were you doing cardio when you did the diet or did u just do the diet alone?
I had a health problem that prevented me from doing much exercise other than walking a few miles per week.

Thankfully, I'm back in the Gym starting last month.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint

And yes, alot of that is water weight because carbs tend to make people retain water.
Yes this is true. Most people lose a lot of water weight when they first start a low-carb diet. That should level off after the first 2 weeks.

Also, be prepared to suck up water like a sponge when you resume eating carbs. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aye B...

It's good to hear that you're progressing into the man we knew you could be bro.

Water weight, fat, whatever it is...you're making results and are going forward...just keep it up.
 

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I gain 5lbs in one year!!!








If u lose weight to fast - it's not good. 10 lbs in a week, I dunno though.
 
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