"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I lose control of myself

Mitza

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I have a big problem, and I want to solve it.

The problem : Everyday I have things to do, like learn something important, do something important, ..important stuff.And I started to write a plan everyday.In some days I follow the plan, in other days it just appear something that distracts me, like a game, a movie, friends calling me to go out ...

Everytime I get distracted by things not as important as my main task.What's my problem ? Is something about habits ? What should I do to fix this ?

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mandiblard

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An important thing to remember is that STARTING is actually the HARDEST PART! Seems easy doesn't it? Well it's much easier to do important things if you're used to doing them everyday, then it's part of your life. Right now, you're trying to break your normal habit, which is the tough part, so hang in there.

Basically you have to know that all you need to do is FORCE yourself to do things for about a week, and you'll find these type of things start coming easier to you and you wont have any problems anymore. There's no easy answer i'm afraid, you just gotta start doing things. That's it.
 

edmond

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Life is to short.

If you HAVE TO do something that you do not want to do then finish it as quickly as possible and move on to the interesting bit that you want to do. However if you DON’T HAVE to do something but want to do something that you enjoy, then drop what you are doing immediately and go enjoy yourself:cheer: .
Life is to short.
 
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