When I have a beard I look rugged and stuff, but very few girls like it and I have little success when I'm sporting it. When I shave girls like it better but I think it makes me look homosexual. Anyone have any idea why or can relate?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I look gay when I shave
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Have you tried different ways to wear your beard? By this I mean, different lengths and styles? Maybe just leave a soulpatch, or a long skinny sideburn that goes to a beard? There are tons of different facial hairstyles my friend, find one that complements you.
I can't grow a beard yet
I can't grow a beard yet