"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I look at other women more when I'm already with a girl

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I just concluded something today. I look at other girls more and do so more openly when I'm already with a girl. It's not something I think about doing, I just feel like doing it - I want to do it more when I already have a girl next to me. What the f*ck is going on? I feel like seducing and f*cking most girls I see, even girls I wouldn't normally want look more attractive and the thought of f*cking girls I know of who have boyfriends because they'd want sex with me more motivates me. I'm looking at some girl with a boyfriend's instagram right now and all I want to do is f*ck her like the little wh0re I know she is. I've never felt this way before. It feels like being with the girl I'm with now is "unlocking" these feelings somehow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AttackFormation said:
I just concluded something today. I look at other girls more and do so more openly when I'm already with a girl. It's not something I think about doing, I just feel like doing it - I want to do it more when I already have a girl next to me. What the f*ck is going on? I feel like seducing and f*cking most girls I see, even girls I wouldn't normally want look more attractive and the thought of f*cking girls I know of who have boyfriends because they'd want sex with me more motivates me. I'm looking at some girl with a boyfriend's instagram right now and all I want to do is f*ck her like the little wh0re I know she is. I've never felt this way before. It feels like being with the girl I'm with now is "unlocking" these feelings somehow.
I have felt this way before.

It is normal to feel this way, especially if your currently with someone who isn't right for you in some way. When you find someone who you really match up with, those feelings are not as strong.

Also, you are 21, a you have a lot of women to go through before you really know what you want.
 
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