"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i live with 2 female roomates. should i **** one of them?

seth03

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i have been thinking about this sh!t for the past 10 hours. I have a pretty hot female roomate who broke up with her bf last week. She asked me if i wanted to go out last night, and I agreed. We went out from like 4pm to 10pm, and the entire time we were out she made it clear that she wanted me (touching me way too much, giving me wedgies HAHA, being super flirty). On the way back home, I was so drunk I just passed out on the lawn near our apartment. She immediately jumped on me and started doin all sorts of stupid sh!t like choking me etc. playing around. i'll stop with the details, she made it clear that she wanted to be phucked.

anyhow, when we went inside, I immediately just went into my room, and she went into hers. I don't know why, but before I moved in, phucking either one of my roomates was not part of my plan. why? prob cos i dont want to deal with sh!tty drama every single day for a year if a fight arose or something. or im just gay and should have phuced her.

any opinions? My friends think i should just phuc her, but something tells me that would be a really bad idea. mainly the fact that my bedroom will be 3 steps from hers until august 2008.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BlackJackal

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I say do it. Life is short, where a rubber.
 

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I have done it, I wouldn't recommend it if you are afraid of drama. There absolutely will be drama. I got off easy because we were both subletting and were only going to live together 3 months. It was all hunky dory until it wasn't. We went from being super friendly and super fun together to being complete strangers, avoiding each other (drama!).

Bad news: Living with someone next door who is uncomfortable with you is not fun. Trust me. It stinks beyond description.

Good news: The discomfort will get so bad that you both will be forced to confront it, and if you are both mature and smart, you will grow to be friends again. Me and my roommate were great friends again by the time she moved out last week. I made her my little sister. (you are fvcked if you think you can sarge other women consistently when you are doing your roommate also).

I don't know what to suggest to excessively drinking college aged kids... I am always sober and usually straightforward. I wouldn't know how to deal with post drunken drama. Maybe you both can pretend nothing happened? In any case, you are destined to drama if you go ahead. How much depends on how good you are at dealing with women on an emotional level.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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zerocelcius

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Can you afford rent by yourself?...

IF YES than Yes F$&^ the S&^$ out of each of them Over and Over!

IF NO than... no ...no you shouldn't!

One night stand kinda means just one night.... not live in...

2cents
 

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Well lets say you banged this broad and things didnt go to well after that...If you were to bring another girl home to fvck, then im sure your roomate may do something stupid to spoil your good time with this new chick youve just brought home.
 

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No, they are not dumb girls at all. Both graduated from ivy league schools. The one i am talking about is going into her last year of grad school, but already has a job offer as a consultant making huge $$ for next year.

Thanks for all of the solid advice you guys gave. I am in a hurry right now but when I come back I will make this response longer.
 

Michael Chief

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No.
Besides all the obvious reasons like drama, here's something about social circles that I learned from that Croatian mPUA named Badboy.
You need these girls as bait! When you out fishing, you shouldn't eat your own bait or you wont be able to catch the fish. You should keep a couple hot female friends who WANT you sexually as JUST FRIENDS (on your terms). make them desire you but do not have sex with them. use them as pivots to screw their hot friends. these girls sound like perfect candidates for bait.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kev07

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seth03 said:
No, they are not dumb girls at all. Both graduated from ivy league schools. The one i am talking about is going into her last year of grad school, but already has a job offer as a consultant making huge $$ for next year.

Thanks for all of the solid advice you guys gave. I am in a hurry right now but when I come back I will make this response longer.
These girls can be possible lifelong friends, you can find girls to **** at a club/bar anyday.
 

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Hells Yea...Do it, bro! I've ONLY had female roommates just for the fact that they pay half my mortgage & i get free Pvssy! I've been lucky they've all been fabulous drama free roommates!!! Oh yes...God loves me!!! lol.
 

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ive been in that situation and i did it...the smart thing is to wait til the lease is almost over before making the move
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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no, when things are over between you and the one girl... then the two girls will gang up against you and kick your butt out.
 

B4IFURU18?

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Do it, but make sure it's drunk, afterbar hookups...anything sober could lead to a catastrophic disaster...she'll become attached and want you as her BF.
 
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