"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, it may take just a second, but I'll try to keep it brief. Read on and thanks in advance for any help.

There is this one girl that I really like, and we have some history but that was during high school days which was a while back. She currently has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend which ultimately doesn't work out. Now we've recently began talking again and basically her boyfriend treats her like **** (Yea I know all the Nice Guy/Jerk stuff), and she still would prefer him over anyone else including me. I have no qualms with ending this with my current girlfriend, but I'd really like to hook up with the other girl. We recently hung out and stuff while her and her BF were broken up. We ended up having sex and 3 days later, she's calling letting me know she's trying to work things out with him and it would be best if we were friends for now. Where the hell did I mess this up at? I know I can get her back but I just need a push in the right direction. Maybe I played in too much on the Nice Guy side, but sometimes its hard. I'm up for a challenge at this point, so any pointers or direction would be great. Thanks again for any help guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Corey said:
lol dump your current bird and get someone else bet she asks u why u didn't wait.
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lol I see that sparking some type of interest but I don't see how it'll help the situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Find some other girls to game. I mean come on dude
you sounds like you don't even like your current girl
and you had sex with the other but she won't leave her BF.
I say time to move on. Just think there are other hotties
just waiting to be swept of their feet.
 
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You lost!

The two of you had sex and she'd rather stay with boyfriend plus you've both displayed infidelity on each side and that's a recipe for disaster.

Nothing good can possible come out of this situation, move on!
 
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JDA70 said:
Find some other girls to game. I mean come on dude
you sounds like you don't even like your current girl
and you had sex with the other but she won't leave her BF.
I say time to move on. Just think there are other hotties
just waiting to be swept of their feet.
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I think you're right but I guess I just would like to have an equal shot at her. We were really into eachother too... err so it seemed. Even the day she told me this. Guess its time to roll in the right direction now though. I'd like to see her chasin after me soon, but by then I may not be interested. This is still open to all suggestions so please feel free.
 
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u cheated on ur girl... ouch!...
hope ur girl is not deep in it with you...how long ya'll been together?

first things first fix your home..if you aint happy with ur girl..let her go to another guy thatll appreciate it and put it to good use.

then find yourself some othes girls..

as for this chic..read this carefully.....

she used you...to make sure her BF is really what she wants..and now she knows..so she's back..which means she aint gonna leave him for you..

move on..
 
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