"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"i like you"

surface1030

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what is the best way to tell the girl "i like you"? in a way just to put it on the table, let her think about it and make a decision. not a way of pouring your damn heart out on this chick and scaring her, lol. things have been going on and i like her so i'm gonna tell her. if it doesn't work out, oh well. next!

should i say something like, - since the day we met each other, i've started to like you more than a friend

i dono w/e
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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idiot_boyfriend

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Originally posted by surface1030
should i say something like, - since the day we met each other, i've started to like you more than a friend
Say that, and you're fùcked. Read the DJ Bible. Nothing's going to scare a girl more than telling her you like her. LOL.
 

AFK Protector

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How about....never tell her your feelings. You must show them. Not as in buying her sh1t. But as in using kino (touching) and flirting, etc.

seriously, read the bible man. And she probably doesn't even like you back. So go read the bible, and if you still have questions, come hither to the forum.

Since you're not afraid of rejection, and you said you'll just "next" her after being an AFC, go ahead and do that man. Learn from your mistakes.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
How about....never tell her your feelings. You must show them. Not as in buying her sh1t. But as in using kino (touching) and flirting, etc.
'zactly
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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arcilitei34

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
How about....never tell her your feelings. You must show them. Not as in buying her sh1t. But as in using kino (touching) and flirting, etc.
True that, actions speak louder than words.
 

gav

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1. talk normally
2. show your desire through a) eye contact that shows your burning passion for her b) kino c) asking her out / getting her number (after a build up of a) and b) ofcourse)
 

jakeyboy

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show you like her, not say it. in that case, if she questions you about it, you can deny everything, ni the case of you not liking her anymore and she'll assume you're just being nice.

show concern for her... do things you would do for her if you liked her. JUST DONT TELL HER verbally. thats stupid. take her into your arms and give her a close hug, she'll sense how much you like her...run your fingers through her hair... you get the idea man. haah.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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