"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"i like you"

surface1030

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what is the best way to tell the girl "i like you"? in a way just to put it on the table, let her think about it and make a decision. not a way of pouring your damn heart out on this chick and scaring her, lol. things have been going on and i like her so i'm gonna tell her. if it doesn't work out, oh well. next!

should i say something like, - since the day we met each other, i've started to like you more than a friend

i dono w/e
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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idiot_boyfriend

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Originally posted by surface1030
should i say something like, - since the day we met each other, i've started to like you more than a friend
Say that, and you're fùcked. Read the DJ Bible. Nothing's going to scare a girl more than telling her you like her. LOL.
 

AFK Protector

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How about....never tell her your feelings. You must show them. Not as in buying her sh1t. But as in using kino (touching) and flirting, etc.

seriously, read the bible man. And she probably doesn't even like you back. So go read the bible, and if you still have questions, come hither to the forum.

Since you're not afraid of rejection, and you said you'll just "next" her after being an AFC, go ahead and do that man. Learn from your mistakes.
 

Vincent

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
How about....never tell her your feelings. You must show them. Not as in buying her sh1t. But as in using kino (touching) and flirting, etc.
'zactly
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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arcilitei34

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
How about....never tell her your feelings. You must show them. Not as in buying her sh1t. But as in using kino (touching) and flirting, etc.
True that, actions speak louder than words.
 

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1. talk normally
2. show your desire through a) eye contact that shows your burning passion for her b) kino c) asking her out / getting her number (after a build up of a) and b) ofcourse)
 

jakeyboy

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show you like her, not say it. in that case, if she questions you about it, you can deny everything, ni the case of you not liking her anymore and she'll assume you're just being nice.

show concern for her... do things you would do for her if you liked her. JUST DONT TELL HER verbally. thats stupid. take her into your arms and give her a close hug, she'll sense how much you like her...run your fingers through her hair... you get the idea man. haah.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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