“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I like this swagger

DJ_in_making

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I just stumbled across this clip on the internet. I think Johnny Depp is pretty don Juanish. I like his overall swagger, his relaxed confidence, his slow talking, and his quick-witted answers. This is a good example of how to behave, like a guy who can have any girl he wants (and actually can).

I also think he's peacocked nicely. None of that ugly peackocking crap, this is a way to peacock and look stylish. Just accessorize the right way.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=w3xqJErrCmc&mode=related&search=

P.S. I also advice checking out Tom Cruise. I know a lot of people don't like him, but you can not argue that he is one charismatic s.o.b. Check out a Tom Cruise interview. Look at his freakin' UNWAVERING eye contact that he holds.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Microphone Fiend said:
Does anyone else see the irony of him calling the guy who played Don Juan deMarco on the big screen "don juan-ish"
lol, oh yea I almost forgot. :crackup:
 

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haha me too

good point :p
 

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Honestly, he came off as stoned.

And "haha, you said double duty" is not a quick witted answer. Especially not when it was delivered like 10 seconds later.

I agree he has a relaxed and confident posture though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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