"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I like this girl. What shall I do? How do I approach her?

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Leaderofthepack

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Basically the title. I'd like to get to talk to this girl whether for dating or just to play around. I believe she thinks I'm cute coz one time I said something 'cute' and she pulled my cheeks (my face-cheeks that is)
and we both smiled.

But how do I show her I like her, with a pick up line? (don't think so) Do I even show that I like her? I read somewhere here that you shouldn't or something, because that makes them think they're the prize and whatnot.

So what do I do?

Ps: Please don't answer if your gonna flame or be rude.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Talk to her, flirt with her, make her laugh.

Don't be self-depracating, be confident, comfortable, etc.

Ask her to hang out. Then go from there.
 
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Michele l'Arcangelo

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I'm not going to tell you what to do exactly... I'll just show you what would happen and basic things on how to keep her hooked.

1) Don't show that you like you like her... because... you are the prize, right?
-She will think you're not interested... she will NOT pick up on the fact that you like her if you don't show it.


2) Do show that you like you like her... because... ...you do.
-If you're having fun flirting and making her laugh... she'll most likely be happy to do the same for you.

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If you do not show her you're interested... she won't know it... unless you straight up tell her... which is a NO-NO.

But if you do show her you like her... and she shows that you like her too... don't get all obsessed... don't show her you like her like a freakin stalker or something. Subtly show her you like her (which is flirting). She'll clue you in on when she wants more... she'll say things that obviously show she wants to hangout/talk/etc with you if you keep playing with her interest levels (show you're interested in her one minute... the next you're interest shifts to something else).
 
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